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is a girl...
considered a slut if she has sex on the first date?
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Personally, I wouldn't consider her to be a slut. A slut is someone who is sleeping with different people everyday. Just because she had sex on the first date, doesn't mean she's a slut or she is easy. Maybe she felt a connection with the guy and felt it was right. I wouldn't say she's a slut, though. A bit of sluttish behavior, but far from being a slut.
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well alot of people consider being a slut many things..i personally think a slut os someone who has sex with ALOT of people in a short span..i mean its not always a good thing to let yourself go early but who cares...its your body and do what feels right..if people judge you, let them go. most of the time when people judge they are to discouraged about themselves annyways
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I personally think that a girl may be pervieved as a slut by many different people if she has sex on the first date. I personally wouldnt call the girl a slut, but i would just think that the girl gives herself up al little to easily to the guy. I would try to get the girls side fo view, but she may be judges to be a bit more...kinky than others. :( sry. Hope i helped.
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No, thats her choice. If she does it every 1st date, then maybe. A slut is a female that has sex with alot of defferent men, when she hasnt known them for a long time. Its a personal view.. One time, and I say no. Almost everything, then probally yes.
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Some people might view them as a slut. A slut is pretty much giving it up easily and doing stuff with guys alot.
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I wouldn't consider her a slut if she did it on the first date, but if the girl always does it, then yes. A slut is someone who always sleeps around and if it was a one time thing, then she's not a slut. It's just a slutty behavior.
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Well everyone will view this differently and have their own opinions on it. In my opinion, I would consider her a 'slut' yes, unless she was forced to do it. x
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most of the time peopel would come out saying that girls are sluts if they do have sex on the first date, and i do admit that i would probably be one of those peopel but if you think about it, its your decision what you do and when you decide to do it, so dont worry about it and only worry about yourself and your decisions, if you think that it is a bad decision then dont do it, but if you do, then that is up to you.. i hope i helped =]
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If it is your first date but have known him a long time then it isn't sluttish, if that was your first date without knowing him long then i would just say that you rushed into things.
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Strictly speaking, I would say that INDISCRIMINATE sex is "sluttish" behavior, and one isolated incident doesn't necessarily imply that. I would say that a girl who consistently has sex on the first date has more or less earned her status as easy and loose, but not one who does it just once.
However, tarnished reputations aren't built on facts, they're built on gossip and rumor. Whether it's on a first date or not, getting intimate with someone who is not entirely honorable can wreak havoc on one's reputation. I would argue that it is impossible to get to know and trust someone well enough on a first date to be able to know whether or not they will feed the rumor mill with the details. While one night of indiscretion might not TECHNICALLY make a girl a "slut", she does run the risk of being labeled as such.
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In my opinion, I would never call her a slut, but I would make her out to be a little easy for guys. I think it's okay to kiss and maybe make-out on the first date, but having sex is just out of the question.
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Nowadays, yes it is. It's down to opinions. Some people won't think anything of it, where others will see you as 'easy' etc.
It's up to you in the end. If it's worth sex on a first date and you 100% want to, fair enough. But if it does get out, you will have to put up with some peoples snide comments.
I personally don't think anything of it. It's the persons own business, not mine. Or anyone elses. :)
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different people have different opinions..i also think it depends on where you live.. if you live in a small town where everyone knows everything about everyone else then yes probably everyone will have the same opinion and say yea -- and if you really love that person then it doesnt make you a slut
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