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Question Posted Friday April 14 2006, 4:29 pm

if you like someone but have a bf/gf is it considered cheating? jw.

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LiL_Kelly answered Sunday April 16 2006, 7:09 pm:
no as long as you dont kiss them or do anything.. do you just like them because of there looks because if so thats better then really liking them your are always going to be attrative to a good looking guy its not cheating you can look but no touch!!

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Vikki27 answered Saturday April 15 2006, 4:04 pm:
No, it's not really considered cheating.

The truth is, most people develop slight crushes on other people from time to time, even when they're in a serious relationship or married. However, what crosses the line between a harmless crush is real feelings and/or then acting on those feelings.

If you actually kiss/fool around/have sex with the person you like while with your partner, then it is considered cheating.

It's also worth mentioning that if the feelings you have for another person are strong, you are probably not totally committed to the relationship you are already in.

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Dotty1234 answered Saturday April 15 2006, 9:31 am:
If you like someone while you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend its not considerd cheating, cheating is when you sleep kiss or make sexual contact with someone behind you'r boyfriends or girlfriends back
Madi
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xoxDaneCookRox answered Friday April 14 2006, 11:59 pm:
no not unless you like kiss them or do stuff like that.

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trina answered Friday April 14 2006, 8:16 pm:
No not really but if you go out with them it is if you like them then you need to break up with your b/f g/f before you go out with them k.

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lostinpraise answered Friday April 14 2006, 5:41 pm:
It's fine as long as you're careful with yourself. It's not cheating, but if you're in a situation where you're alone together, you need to acknowledge your own feelings and be careful to get out if it looks like anything might happen between you. And consider your motives when wanting to spend time with them or be alone, keep in control.
Claire
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Imperialistic answered Friday April 14 2006, 5:38 pm:
Being attracted to someone isn't a crime, it's human nature.
Just as long as you don't act on it, you're good.

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itsz_JESS answered Friday April 14 2006, 5:26 pm:
well not exactly.. if you do anything like kiss them or something then it will be considered cheating

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storageanddisposal answered Friday April 14 2006, 5:26 pm:
No, but since you bring it up, I would rethink your relationship situation? Is the person you're dating really the one you want to be with? If you're not sure, then maybe you weren't ready for a relationship with said boy/girlfriend, assuming this isn't hypothetical.

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bsktballchick45 answered Friday April 14 2006, 5:02 pm:
No I don't think so. I have a boyfriend and like a couple other people. If you kiss them, then it's cheating.

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XoNeLLiE143oX answered Friday April 14 2006, 4:53 pm:
no..i at least hope its not becuase i have a bf and i have a crush on like 5 other people lol...but no. as long as you dont do anything like sexual w/ them or kiss them then its fine. ♥dAnieLLe
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TheTeenGirl answered Friday April 14 2006, 4:40 pm:
Definetly not. You'd be surprised by how many couples will still be very in love with each other, but they will have small crushes or may think someone else is good looking too.

The only way it is considered cheating is if you date them, or if you kiss them. If you spend a lot of time with this person, it wouldn't be cheating, but it would be wrong. It's like choosing someone you like over your own boyfriend or girlfriend.

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karenR answered Friday April 14 2006, 4:35 pm:
No. It isn't considered cheating unless you sneak around and go on a date or smooch on them.:)

You can like a lot of people of the opposite sex without cheating.

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