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Question Posted Saturday November 26 2005, 7:23 pm

Heyy!,

Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!!


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Additional info, added Saturday November 26 2005, 7:41 pm:
He is in 6th grade and im in 8th.

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FullMoonLover08 answered Monday November 28 2005, 11:13 pm:
umm 2 years difference? and your problem is what? all these other kids bugging you..since your older?? if your older and you like him too bad

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alleycatt726 answered Monday November 28 2005, 10:15 pm:
No its not, i think anything under a 10 year age difference is just fine

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Beatiful120 answered Sunday November 27 2005, 4:14 pm:
Well no it's not wrong but sooner or later you are going to realize you want more action from your relationship which you can't get from your 6 grade boyfriend

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shawnax3marie answered Sunday November 27 2005, 1:54 am:
Not At All!!!! my ex-boyfriend and me went out for 3 years and he was 11 when i was 13.. but it might be hard though.. b/c you guys are in different grades.. and you wont see eachother much .. thats why me and my ex didnt work out.. but if you guys love eachother you can make it work;)

Hope I Helped!!! :)

♥ Shawna

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday November 26 2005, 11:36 pm:
Yes thats just weird.. ♥ dez

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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Saturday November 26 2005, 11:11 pm:
No0o0o !!

♥ Samra

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Xxjackieroxxx answered Saturday November 26 2005, 10:28 pm:
Its not wrong.. but its a litle bit of a differnt. When your 15 the 13 year old wont want to have sex but y ou might.. think about it

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livingLIKEloversxx answered Saturday November 26 2005, 10:26 pm:
no it is not wrong. but if you care about your reputation and think that this might harm it, then you shouldn't be going out. no one should be dating if they're not sure. but if you really do like this guy, you shouldn't break it off. age is just a number, and feeling can't be explained.

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Curry09 answered Saturday November 26 2005, 10:24 pm:
No not unless your planning on having sex with him/her.

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whyamimakingthis answered Saturday November 26 2005, 10:22 pm:
no!! i think not!

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Beautifull answered Saturday November 26 2005, 10:01 pm:
it all depends on the people but i wouldn't have gone out wit an 11 year old wen i was 13
hope i helped,
ME

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rachhhh answered Saturday November 26 2005, 9:58 pm:
not at all .. age shouldn't matter, if you guys like each other - go for it

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tasuki answered Saturday November 26 2005, 9:56 pm:
I think so. I really do. If you were 17 and he was 15, that would be no big deal. But I think that 13 is too young to be going out, and 11 certainly is. Neither of you are ready to have a real relationship. But that's just my opinion, in the end it is your choice so do what you want.

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tinydancer71591 answered Saturday November 26 2005, 9:41 pm:
personally, i think that an 11 year old shouldn't be dating. but, its all based on maturity. if u two are at the same maturity level and ur not going too far in the relationship, and its okay with the 'rents...go for it. but i'm not promoting anything.

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Mackenzie answered Saturday November 26 2005, 9:36 pm:
Ehhh. Not to offend you, but at 11 and 13.. knowledge of "love" and relationships is intensely minimal. Basically, it doesn't really matter either way..

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Jmoran answered Saturday November 26 2005, 9:13 pm:
No, if two people like each other, age should not matter, most parents and grandparents are many years appart, just a few is reraly nothing its perfectly right and natural.

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HeartsLiesFriends answered Saturday November 26 2005, 8:35 pm:
No way Jose.
Age isnt anything but a number as anyone says.
The age different isnt anything outrageous anyway.
:) HOPE I HELPED
[♥]ANGELA

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iiAdOrEyOuxOh answered Saturday November 26 2005, 8:31 pm:
no! of course not! its only a 2 year differance! its not awkward at all! i went out with a 16 year old when i was 12 so yeah... it was all good! yeah pretty wierd i know but yeah age doesnt matter!

hope i helped!
ashley

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ankeagle14 answered Saturday November 26 2005, 8:28 pm:
well, as most people know girls tend to get more mature faster than guys so if the gu is o;der its ok, if the girl is it really depends ont the guy. but over all if you love/really like him, its perfactly fine. hope it works out.
ANK

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Xfoxcutie09X answered Saturday November 26 2005, 8:15 pm:
age aint nuthin but a number. anyone can go out with anyone. it doesnt matter how old you are or how old they are.

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GrAcIeBeLlE answered Saturday November 26 2005, 8:09 pm:
if hes a hottie <33

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HC0_Fabulousity_xO answered Saturday November 26 2005, 8:02 pm:
If you truly like him, it really shouldn't matter :]

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Jeanettessn answered Saturday November 26 2005, 8:01 pm:
I don't believe that age should play a factor in your decision unless there was a drastic difference, but that is not the case. I think that you should focus more on trying to figure out if you match in maturity and intelligence. You do not want to be in the big sister position with someone that you are interested in. Make sure that you will not be bored when he is off playing playstation.

Good luck.

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CutiePieDri answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:58 pm:
nooo way my parents are 3 years apart and they are married and it is kinda bad if like your 12 and your bf is 6 or something lmao

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cheerleadrx4 answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:54 pm:
not at all if you like each other then don't worry about a thing because its not like theres a law that you have to go out with people your age i mean are your parents the same age?? and if so theres alot of married couples not the same age which means that it dosn't matter if you go out with an 8th grade if you guys really like each other thats incredible and good luck !!!

prayers n hugs-
julia

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SenoritaLopez answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:54 pm:
well honestly all my boyfriends have been younger than me. i was a freshman and went out wit a dude from 7th grade! hahah. i broke up wit him cuz he wanted to much. (if you get what im saying) now im with a guy that younger than me by like 3 months. but if u really like this boy then go for it. maybe he might even look older you. i mean its not like anyone would come up to you and say, "whos older you or your boyfrined?"

so in my opinion go for it.

let me know if it works.
Daniella

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LoveNJstyle answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:46 pm:
that's odd...if the guy was in 8th it would be ok but why would you want a little boy going through puberty in 8th grade? but it you really want to then go for it. <3

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Teza answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:38 pm:
It's not wrong, but to other people it may seem a little bit weird. If you like each other, then defenetly go for it. It's only a 2 year difference and that's not a lot.

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t0xicParadiSe answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:38 pm:
I don't see anything wrong with that. All that matters is that you two like eachother. No one should tell you who to go out with and besides in my opinion age is just a number.
&hearts;

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Alexandria_ answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:36 pm:
Absolutely not.

Age is just a number. If you really like eachother it shouldn't matter anyhow =]

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malibubarbiie111 answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:36 pm:
not at all.* if you like eachother then, i don`t see any harm in the age difference. it`s not like you are 15 going out with a guy who is like 40!! lol <33 &hearts;x0x

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Annerszz_101 answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:34 pm:
No. If you really like eachother, I would say its alright.
^^ Let me know if i helped!

**Hope it works out**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O

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cjAdvice answered Saturday November 26 2005, 7:34 pm:
Ya you two can go out!!!

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