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I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?
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If your going to have sex don't just do it with anyone. Thats truely the only reason you'd get labled a slut. Make sure you know the guy really well and trust him. Use condoms!!
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if you have even a TINY doubt in your mind that you're not ready and the "I might be ready" shows a pretty large doubt that you are not ready. Then don't do it. Don't do it until you have no doubts in your mind what so ever.. and until you can say "i'm ready" woithout having ANY second thoughts just say no! -Macy (Rate me!)
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tell them to screw off and go find a hoe thats gunna actually give in =)
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If you think that u might be ready dont do it. HOnestly i think 14 is way to young. You should be pressured to do anything that you dont want to do. But if you really wanna do it then MAKE SURE your ready .. but seriously i think your WAY to young to have sex..
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If you only 'might' be ready, then you aren't ready.
And if you think the guy you might have sex with would tell other people about it, then he certainly isn't ready to have sex.
It's about trusting yourself - that it's the right time, that you are making a strong and smart choice - and about trusting the person you are with. Sex is private, and if you think a guy would tell all his friends you had sex, knowing it could lead to you being judged by people, why would you want to share your body with him?
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well i would hope that IF you DO have sex, that you would limit it to ONE guy who you LOVE and loves you. dont sleep around. if you find the right guy, and he loves you and respects you, no one will find out that you had sex, because he wont tell anyone. so no one can call you a slut... right? right.
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DONT HAVE SEX U WILL DEGRADE URSELF AND YES ITS HAPPENED TO MANY PEOPLE I KNOW U WILL GET CALLED A SLUT EVERY GIRL FRIEND THAT U HAD WILL BE TALKING ABOUT U BEHIND UR BACK AND U WONT KNOW WHO UR REAL FRIENDS R AND EVERY GUY WILL THINK HE CAN GET WITH U!! be safe not sorry... hope u make the right choice. <3
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Don't do it. People will call you a slut. I know this..i haven't done it but i know friends who have. So if you don't want to be called a slut don't do it...I think you should wait till your older.
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do what you feel like doing if other people are doing it i dont think you would be called a slut as long as u keep the guys to a minimum but hun alls i gotta say is wait till ur ready for it
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HEY THIS IS NAQUIA
YOUR NOT GOING TO BE A SLUT ONLY IF IT WAS MORE THAN ONE PERSON OR JUST DON'T DO IT YOU HAVE PENTY OF TIME
PEACE
NAQUIA
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well for one i think youre tooooooo young. but if you are completely ready be safe use plenty of protection. and only have sex wid a guy if you two are ready and you trust him. but if you don't then wait. you ain't goin no where.
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Even though a lot of 13- and 14-year-olds seem to be losing their virginity these days, I don't think that they are truly ready. If you're just out of middle school, you haven't fully matured. If you aren't sure that you are totally ready, don't go through with it. You'll regret it later.
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the only way u can be called a slut is when u do it with someone that u know will spread nasty rummers about u but if u get a boyfriend and give it about 2 or 3 weeks tell u have sex then then u will know. dont rush!!
love ya jasmine
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Don't do it! You should consider sex abstinance.... your too young. But if your a virgin, I think you should wait till it's someone special because then if you give it up to anyone, then they'll have bragging rights and you'll really be considered a slut. So I say jux wait, it's the best thing you can do. I promise if you wait, life will be a whole lot easier. Sex brings babies! So I jux say get ur education first. Pplz tease me about being a 16 yr old virgin, I COULD CARELESS! Cause I know I am going somewhere with my life. And I'm not sayin I am waiting till marrige but I am sayin when I get a lil older! And also you should have to do anything you don't want to do! Good Luck! And I hope you make the right decision! God Bless! Beebyes! ~1ne~
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The best thing 2 do is 2 wait 2 have sex, and even better until ur married. That way u can trust the person ur with and u know that u truely love them. If ur having any doubts, it's better not 2 have sex cuz u don't wanna regret it later. Hope I helped! (And sorry, I don't mean 2 preach.)
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I definitely wouldn't have sex if you're not ready and if you don't want to be called a slut then you probably shouldn't anyway. You should wait until you're older. Maybe even wait until you're married. I had sex for the first time when I was 17. I married the guy that I did that with but I regret doing it before I married him because it wasn't as special on our wedding night. Really consider your feelings on this before you jump into bed with someone. I hope this helps!
Crystal
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well then every you only do it with guys that you are comfortable with not with everyone. anf if you called a slut then you should tell them to lay off ya dic*. but its all your desion.
-nicicole
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Dont let anybody pressure u into something u dont wanna do and dont do something just because everyone else is you should wait till ur older and u know your ready or untill ur married would probably be best but thats not up to me to decide anyways but dont to something if you dont want to and dont do it to fit in, You should wait for the right person and if your not sure if your ready u probably arent. Hope i helped some
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You should do it when the time feels right. Don't just get caught up in the moment - and make sure it is with someone that is special to you. <3 Steph
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Don't have sex @ this age its wayy too young plus if every one else wasn't doing it would you be? and if you don't have sex ppl won't call you a slut!
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Don't have sex. Even if you think you'Re Ready.. you'Re not. Sex is a b.i.g step and not even woRth the Risks. Just devote youRself to youR schooling and enjoy youR high school yeaRs. And you do NOT need to go out having sex to enjoy youR high school yeaRs! Goodluck, and RemembeR.. neveR be afRaid to say no! =D
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