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Saying something to a guy who likes you but you dont feel th
Posted Wednesday January 16 2008, 7:52 am
Well my subject pretty much gives it away... There's this guy I know, lets say his name is Jake* I met him at a New Years party and I haven't ever met some really nice guys before, but he was and he was interested in me. I wasn't thinking right that night, he started flirting and I flirted back but I was just playing around... but then again, I told you... I wasn't thinking right. It's just that I've never actually had experience with boys before. Now, he got my number somehow through a friend and calls me all the time... if I don't pick up, I feel guilty and when I do , he continues flirting. I tried to let him know indirectly that I really don't like him that way but he doesn't understand. What do I say to him? I don't want to hurt him in any kind of way...
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Hopeless love?
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 11:27 pm
As cliche as this sounds, I like this guy a lot. I have told him one before but I think he's pretending I didn't tell him. The thing is, this isn't some dumb crush on some guy, I've liked this guy for a very very long time, but I am not sure if he likes me back. there are times when he'll be so into me and what i have to say and just take such interest in me, but then there are times when he could care less. I really don't know what to do. I can go like 2 weeks without talking to him, and I'll start to get over him, and then I'll start talking to him again and all my feelings will just re appear. I want to be more than just friends with him but I don't know how. someone please give me some sort of logical advice?
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what i do next from here!
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 11:25 pm
Oka well there's this guy that i had liked and well i finally got the courage to ask him out, actually i didnt really ask him out see my friend got a class with him and i ask her to try and talk to him for me. Which she did and she had told him that i liked him and she ask him if he likes me and he said yea she alright and stuff like that. Somy friend told me how he gonna try and talk to me and stuff but i dont know what to do because i really want to know if he likes me like really likes me. Becasue i heard that he is with this other girl but they not really together,the other girl is with this other boy and and yea and i dont want to get into any kind of drama. So what should i do!
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Torn
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 11:13 pm
ok so im torn between 5 guys. guy # 1: we went out once for 2 months. he broke up with me for another girl. it didnt work out, and now hes calling me again and is flirting like there is no tomorrow. guy #2: we have been friends for a while. hes #1's best friend and my ex best friend's ex bf. hes real nice and he is always there for me...but he has a lot of addict issues (drugs, alcohol, etc.) #1 only drinks, but i do 2. he doesnt do drugs. but i dont wanna screw up #2's friendship with me. becuz if things didnt work out, then that'll mess up our friendship and neither of us want that. guy #3: drinks and is in a band, and im totally into rockers. # 2 is a rocker as well, #3 is a grade younger than me but is starting to become a real close fr...
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Cry baby...
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 10:54 pm
I don't think I get to see my boyfriend as much as I would like to. I know he has things to do and that he's busy and I try my best to understand that, but it still hurts. I care about him a lot.
The days I do see him, When it comes time for him to leave, I get sad, Like REALLY REALLY sad. Sometimes I cry, or I get that pain in my chest like when you get a broken heart, and sometimes I get mad at him and don't hug or kiss him good bye because i'm angry... and when he's gone, I regret it soooo much, because we left eachother on bad terms.
What the hell is wrong with me?!?!?!
And how can I stop doing this????
It's not even like I never see him, I get too see him at least once a week.
It...
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Will you be my valentine? Too corny?
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 9:59 pm
Alright, to indicate a small history. I have a good friend, you could almost say we used to be best friends. Recently I've been falling for him. We've hung out a few times and I could see some hints but I could just be fooling myself. We are going to prom together, as friends [he is in grade 10 and i am in 12]. I've decided that I am going to tell him, but I don't know when or how. My question to you is:
Do you think it would be corny to use Valentine's Day as an excuse to tell him I like him? If not..Any ideas?
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Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 8:30 pm
k, well. theres this guy. lets call him r, hes two years older than me, but i like him. and we're alot alike. and today we hung out, and we didnt flirt but we had a good time. and he knows that i like him, and he didnt make it akward around him whenw e were together. and he wouldnt tell me who he likes, he told me he liked flirting with girls instead of just staying put. but, ive never seen him flirt with anyone. so idk what he means. i'm just confused. idk what to do or what to even say, so.. HELP?!
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"i love you"
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 8:21 pm
i've been dating this guy for a few months and he hasn't said "i love you" to me....when do you think he will? :/
17/f
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HELP! A BET !
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 7:22 pm
I'm a freshman, and since the begining of the year i've been talking to this really cute junior. I've had other boy flings since then and he's told me about girls he's into ( not me )however we always are texting or flirting in school or football games ect. This weekend is the Giants football game and we're both big giants fans expect he bet me that they would lose this weekend and i bet him they wouldnt. (However, they most likely will lose). He came up with teh bet and all of the rules for it and he wants me to come up with what we're betting on. I really need to think of something fast beacuse he keeps asking me if i've thought of something yet and I havn't! I obviously dont want to bet money beacuse thats lame i was thinking maybe some...
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V-Day
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 7:19 pm
Ok what is something i can get my girlfriend for valintines day besides jewery or flower?
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Should I break up with him
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 4:35 pm
17/f and he's 18
We've dated 2 years but took a 2 month break a year ago.
Okay.
We decided to take another break on Sunday night, he said we had nothing in common and his parents and friends dont like me. But what hurt the most was when he said "I dont really see you in my future so i dont see the point in still dating" He said how people never marry their first love and if they do that they end up getting divorced because they have never been with other people.
I feel like he would have wanted to break up right then but I convinced him to just spend some time apart. So I thought about our relationship and realized if we got back together I would be the only one trying to change things ...
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getting over the ex, help!
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 4:31 pm
hi :]
im getting over my ex like forsure, like i dont want to be with him at all relationship wise and theres this guy we'll call him Allen and we're getting really close! but his ex just broke up with him like a month ago and he's not over her and he's convinced im not over my ex which for the most part i am bc my ex is over it and doesnt talk to me , but Allen's ex keeps bothering him wanting to get back but he doesnt want to but still has feelings for her. so im kinda stuck here
because allen is really confused about it all, we hang out every day and talk on the phone till like 2am and its obvious he still loves his ex and i do still love mine but im ready to move on but i know allen isnt i can understand and am wil...
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relationship help
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 4:26 pm
18/f
I've liked my friend for a while and at my christmas party we were talking about relationships and we'd both just come out of one. We both said that we just want to have fun cos we're young but then we ended up kissing. After we were talking on msn and he asked if i have feelings for anyone so i said him and he apologised for what happened at the party and said if he knew he wouldnt have kissed me. Then at my friends New Years party it happened again but neither of us have mentioned it to each other and we're just acting like friends. So do i carry on with the way things are or try and do something to further the relationship? But im not very confident and wouldnt feel comfortable asking him out or anything.
Thanks!
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thinking of swinging
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 3:53 pm
No, not on the playground.
Before my husband and I were married (we are going on 9 years now), we had a very different relationship. We had been together in high school, then apart for 3 years. During that time, I discovered a sexual side of myself that I loved. When we got back together, I made sure he knew that part of me. He loved it too. I'm a bisexual submissive and he knew how to dominate me. On occasion, we would play with others. He'd let other people whip or spank me with no issues. We toyed with another young woman. Then, we got married and had a baby (he's 8 now)and it all seems to have gone away. And it wasn't gradual either. I got depressed, and still am. I think a lot of it has to do with feeling like I have to...
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my boyfriend and committment
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 2:51 pm
well...i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and we have already run into some problems(at least from my point of view). he is the greatest guy i have ever met, but it just seems like he has problems with committing too fast!!! okay...so he already told me that he wants to get married and he keeps proposing to me but i am not even finished with school. so...what should i do??? cause i have already tried to explain to him that i don't want to right now. also i told him that i don't want to have sex until marriage and he is having a hard time understanding that. what should i do about all this???
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I am going through it.
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 12:43 pm
There is this young lady that I am in love with and i think that she has something for me. We have stopped speaking mayby 4 times but each time we found each other. when I am out and around I can see her looking at me or when we step into a room no matter where or how many people we always spot each other. Lately thing have been rough between us.. I was talking to her and somehow no matter how hard I try someone is always around do not like that too much any.. This morning I sent the Good morning email and she responded. " FINE I DO NOT WANT TO UPSET YOU BUT I DO NOT FEEL LIKE TALKING, HAVE A GOOD DAY' I RESPONDED "ONE QESTION THOUGH, DO YOU NOT FEEL LIKE TALKING OR NOT TALKING TO ME' AM i READING TOO MUCH INTO THIS. BECASUE i FEEL BAD NOW..
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serious help!
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 12:23 pm
i met this boy tommy my junior year and in the summer we went out ive liked him ever since my freshman year but he didnt notice me till my junior year in the summer he asked me out to be his girlfriend and i said yes of course lol...well in the summer we never hung out only at the family values tour and we had a good time...then schooll started and the 3rd day he broke up with me he said he was to busy and didnt have time for "any" kind of girlfriend ive dated guys and then he got back with his ex melonie and i was pissed at that time i was with this guy nick well months passed by and i always thought about tommy even with nick and when i would see tommy i would kinda move away from nick so tommy wouldnt think i was interested in ...
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age
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 11:11 am
Hi, ive been going out with this girl for about a month now and i like her sooooo much, im 17 and according to her she was turnin 16 next month, but last night she phoned me in tears and confessed that she had been lying and is really 14 and about to turn 15.
What should I do? im not a pedofile, ill be 18 and she'll still be 15! Surely that's wrong isn't it? Help me please
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Kissey Kiss ;)
Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 4:14 am
Well my bf is coming over next tuesday and i told him to bring some scary movies.He couldn't make it to the movies last time we were mean't to go out and i was expecting to kiss him then so no i want to kiss him this time.This will be our first kiss and mine first ever kiss so my question is should i make the first move or should he and what else should i do.My parents won't be there..
Thanx
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Crush!
Posted Monday January 14 2008, 10:46 pm
i am 15 and a female. Okay i have really like this kid for a long time know, and i talk to him every once in a while at school. and last weekend i stayed at my friends house and she has a twin brother and he had the kid that i like sleep over, and i was kinda shy to like talk to him and everything for a little bit. but he was trying to talk to me but and i started talking to him and he like started flirting wiht me. do you think he likes me or he was jjust flirting becasue that is what guys do.
thanks.
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