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Will you be my valentine? Too corny?
Alright, to indicate a small history. I have a good friend, you could almost say we used to be best friends. Recently I've been falling for him. We've hung out a few times and I could see some hints but I could just be fooling myself. We are going to prom together, as friends [he is in grade 10 and i am in 12]. I've decided that I am going to tell him, but I don't know when or how. My question to you is:
Do you think it would be corny to use Valentine's Day as an excuse to tell him I like him? If not..Any ideas?
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First of all, I dont think it would be corny if you told him on Valentines Day. I actually think that would be the most common time to express your love for someone, you know? But if you dont think so, then dont do it. If you feel you could tell it in private, then go for it. If you cant, get him to be alone with you. Dont send any txt or email messages about it. Do it all in person. And if you want to know the best time, the time is ASAP! The sooner you spill the beans(not to make it sound like its a super embarrassing secret or anything...) the more likely you'll get the answer you want. The longer you wait, the more it will pain you and the more opportunities it gives other women. So get rid of all that doubt in your head and optimistic about it. As long as you think positive, nothing bad should happen!
So, Good luck with it! b^_^
((P.S. - If he does feel uncomfortable about you liking him or likes someone else or whatever, dont freak out, dont burst into tears, dont do anything close to it! Ask if you could at least stay friends. Because he could eventually change his mind))
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Well you've had a few options available to you. Oppurutinities do not show up with bright neon lights. Just talk to him and see if he feels the same. If he doesn't, try not to let it become wierd between you. I've been in a situation where I told a friend I liked her as more than a friend, then we went out, then she dumped me, then we stopped talking.
Hope I helped!
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Well, I am goign to start off by saying that you have had quite a few chances to prouve yourself to this guy. You need to take matters into consideration when in situations like these. Next time your alone, or in a group of poeple at a dance where they CAN'T hear what you guys are talking about, mention it to him. If he says nothing or looks kind of startled, make a joke out if it but DON'T say "Just Kidding" because that's just mean and what if he DID like you and was just trying to figure out a way to respond, then he may feel like "Wow, that could have been embarassing" and he may never say anything about it again, backfiring on your plan.
As for the Valentine's Day theory, yes I think it is corny because of the numerous centries of love stories. But if you can do something original and creative with it; Go for it!
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