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My mom is just too involved and I listen too much


Posted Monday December 19 2011, 5:48 pm

Hey there. I'm writing here bc im in need of advice. I'm turning 21 next month. Female. Ever since I can remember, my mom has been extremely involved. She has really pushed me bc she's wanted to know everything about my life. I've let her in, maybe too much. It has gotten to a point where she's very controlling and when she doesn't get her way, she gets extremely upset. Last year, I dyed my hair dark brown. I'm naturally a light brown. But when I was about 17, he insisted that I go blonde. I listened to her and i never questioned the way I look. But, looking back, I really don't like myself as much with blonde hair. I like my natural color or even a little darker. I look relatively young. I'm very petite and i have a very youthful looking f...

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Dating This Guy


Posted Monday December 19 2011, 4:28 pm

I've been seeing this guy for over a month now. We get along great, we like the same things and we hang out basically every weekend. He is one of the few guys I can be completely myself around, even being the sensible or crazy me lol and he told me that's exactly how he feels.


Just the other weekend we were kissing and making-out when he paused and said "I like you... Really really like you... You are the one." When he said this I was a little suprised and kissed him again. Now he's got me thinking if he really meant that cuz he did have a few beer in him. I am cautious about who I give my heart too, but I just want to know what you think. When a guy says this is he actually thinking 'long term'?

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grabbing my boobs!


Posted Monday December 19 2011, 2:45 pm

i was wondering if it is ok for me to grab my boobs so often? i mean is there a point when it just stops or what can i do? HELP!!!!

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Music Dilemma: Which is the better/safer/more legal choice?


Posted Monday December 19 2011, 7:45 am

Hi, all of you. I have a small problem that could grow into a much bigger issue if allowed to go too far. I'm asking an honest question about a real dilemma I'm facing, so please, don't be harsh with your answers.

Here's the thing... I love music, particularly songs from the TV show Glee. I know FOX is a major company and doesn't need every penny they get to make it through the recession, but I respect them, and I want to support the show by buying music legally from the iTunes Store.

The problem is, my only real income is government assistance, and as much as I would love to buy all my favorite songs from Glee, I can't forget that my whole life right now is being funded by taxpayers who work hard for that mone...

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iPhone: Should I buy the 16GB iPhone or the 32GB one?


Posted Monday December 19 2011, 12:18 am

I'm trying to decide between the 16GB Iphone and the 32GB. Does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks in advance!

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Missed a pill, weird circumstances, pregnancy chances?


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 11:56 pm

Well, Friday the 9th I had anal sex with my boyfriend, which was about a week after my period ended. We didn't use protection and he came inside of me. I'm on birth control, but on either wednesday or thursday I missed my pill but I made it up the next day. Either way, I was caught up on my pills by the time I had sex but I hadn't taken the one for friday.I know that anal sex by itself can't get you pregnant but there might have been a chance that some semen leaked out and could have gone into my vagina. Back to my question, how likely is it that i'm pregnant? I'm really stressed about this and I'm afraid my period won't even show up.

sidenote: i know the whole spiel about having anal sex without protection, diseases, blah bl...

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Getting a Boyfriend


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 11:50 pm

I am 17/female. I have only had one serious boyfriend and we lasted 3 months. I am a senior in highschool and we dated my sophmore year. We didn't do anything sexual so i am quite unexperienced. I kind of want a boyfriend now but i haven't really gotten close to having another one. Most people find me unattractive i would assume and i dont blame them. I want to loose my virginity and experiment as well as have a relationship i have had guys tell me if i want to sleep with them i can, but i dont want to just show up and say "lets fuck" that seems rediculous to me. There is one person in particular i'd do that with but i dont think they're up for it, and they're taken anyways. The only other person i'm slightly close to being in a r...

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I got my period. How do I tell my mom?


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 11:36 pm

how do i tell my mom i got my period

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Sex hurts, but only with certain positons?


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 11:31 pm

Hi, 19/f.

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we have protected sex.


For some reason, sex hurts me. NOt all positions, just some.

For example, when I'm on top of him and I'm basically bent over him, it doesn't hurt.

But when I'm sitting straight up, or leaned back alittle, a sharp pain happens, and it doesn't go away until I either get off of him, or lower myself.

When he's on top of me, and I put my legs up in the air, it hurts; but when I lay my legs out and not up, it doesn't hurt.

I just don't understand how come it hurts me? I wasn't a virgin when we first started dating, and he's not like super big. He's probably 7 1/2....

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I want a Nintendo 64 setup like I used to have. What all do I need to buy to make it complete?


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 11:17 pm

17-F

I've decided to buy myself a Nintendo 64 from Ebay as a Christmas present to myself. My old 64 broke years ago, so I completely forget what type of things I need/should have for it. I vaguely remember something about expansion packs. What are they/what do they do?

Also, if anybody could list other things I need/should have besides the console, controllers, and games that would be great. Game suggestions would be nice, too.


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How do you determine the volume of a solid?


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 11:11 pm

of the two methods used to determine the volume of a solid, which is more accurate?

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Research on Brain Tumors


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 10:58 pm

Hello!

This may sound a bit odd, but I’m looking for research specifically on brain tumors. I’m looking mainly for links on symptoms, first hand accounts from people who have had malignant tumors, and any other links and information about it.

The reason why is my uncle recently died from some illness related to tumors that lowered his immune system (I think that was it?). All I’ve been able to understand from my family is that, when my uncle was a young man he ended up fainting in the middle of a bowling alley, going to the hospital, and discovered a very large tumor on his brain. They removed it, but the doctors mentioned that it probably would grow back, and chances were my uncle wouldn’t live very l...

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I brush my teeth twice a day and floss but i still have cavities.


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 10:57 pm

I brush my teeth twice a day and floss but i still have cavities. I'm 17 and i don't get to go to the dentist very often because my dad can't afford it. I know if you get a cavity in a molar they drill it and give you a filling, but what if its in between two of your teeth? Is there anyway I can get rid of them? /:

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Bad breath


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 10:01 pm

My sister has super bad breath that smells. I don't want to b mean but I want to tell her so that she'll brush more.

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DRINKING TO GET OVER PAIN PILLS- NEED ADVISE! PLZ.


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 9:37 pm

hi after several surgeries i was given some great narcotic drugs. well now im out and cANt get more- i cant even get some to taper off. so now im a pill addict! i hAve begun to drink wine AT NIGHT-to cAlm my nerveS AND ANXiety-thiS I Know is wrong, but im Stuck! no one understands... help me plz.

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I have fun when I am with him... but I feel like I can do better.


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 8:57 pm

Okay well let me start off to say im 16 years old and I haven't had a boyfriend in two years after I broke up with a guy after a year relationship. The guy he was and usually what I go after is I guess like a jock you can say, but they always end up being a asshole. However, that's the kind of guys my dad like to see me with too. One whose out going, athletic, and all of that kind of traits. I been told that I'm really pretty not trying to sound concieted, but this goes on with my story. Anyhow there's this guy I went out with a few times. His totally not what I'm use too what so ever his more like the nerdy side I guess you can say. He met my parents today and of course I can tell my dad didn't like him so much. I have fun when I'm with hi...

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hurts when i am fingered.


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 8:31 pm

Everytime my boyfriend fingers me now, it hurts reallly bad ): It never used to hurt up until a couple weeks ago when it hurt so bad that it was a little swollen. I dont know what is causing it to hurt but I want it to stop. It dosen't hurt when we have sex though so thats the confusing part. Anyone know what could be causing this?

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How do you tell if a girl is single or not without asking them?


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 4:13 pm

Hi, this may be a little sad, but i am having trouble finding a girlfriend. I go to school, work, and barely have time to get out. I am shy when it comes to the girls that i like. As far as girls who are my friends, i do just fine. I am 19 and i currently have a membership at the local YMCA. The problem is that i don't know how to approach and get a girl to go out with me. I had a "girlfriend" in my freshman year of high school, but we only went out on one date and we didn't even last a month. I would like both gender's perspectives on this. Please state whether you are female or male. THanks. Also, don't worry how many have responded to this already, i'll take as many as i can get.

P.S. how do you tell if a girl is single or not without asking them?

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What does this tattoo mean?


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 4:00 pm

My brother got a tattoo on his arm that looks like:
An upside-down "U" with a line under the letter.

What does it mean?

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Wierdo guy saying he is going out with me but he is NOT


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 3:38 pm

So this guy i know is saying on Facebook that he is going out with me and he didn't even ask! (Even if he did i wouldn't say yes) anyways, i need him to stop!! people are starting to ask, and i don't really know what to say.

PLEASE HELP!

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