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Getting a Boyfriend
I am 17/female. I have only had one serious boyfriend and we lasted 3 months. I am a senior in highschool and we dated my sophmore year. We didn't do anything sexual so i am quite unexperienced. I kind of want a boyfriend now but i haven't really gotten close to having another one. Most people find me unattractive i would assume and i dont blame them. I want to loose my virginity and experiment as well as have a relationship i have had guys tell me if i want to sleep with them i can, but i dont want to just show up and say "lets fuck" that seems rediculous to me. There is one person in particular i'd do that with but i dont think they're up for it, and they're taken anyways. The only other person i'm slightly close to being in a relationship with is my guy friend, i kind of like him but i dont know if he likes me. And i don't know if we'd ever end up dating. expecially since its our last year in highschool. I'm shy around people i don't know so i don't see myself meeting up with people my friends suggest to me, or blind dates or anything else. but idk i just want peoples opinions on everything i've mentioned. anything helps. thank you. and please dont skip your opinion just because others have answered. i'd like as many opinions as i can get. thanks
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What's the rush? Why do you need a boyfriend so bad? Sometimes these things happen, so why not just let it happen? There is probably a want for a boyfriend by why not focus on just you and then a boy will come along. When I was a teenager I worried about guys and what boys thought and to tell you the truth it was a waste of time. I finally realized that and before I knew it a guy that really cared about me was right in front of my face all along. I'm not saying that it works for everyone that way but when you step back and think about you really want it opens up ideas and thoughts.
Now another thing its not right to put yourself down and say you're not attractive. What kind of attitude is that? That's like a car salesman saying this car is nice but its engine is broken. When you say that you are making yourself less appealing to people. Be proud of who you are and have some self confidence in yourself!
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I don't know if you realize what you said but I would hope you wouldn't just fuck anyone for the hell of "experimenting"
Relationships should be about more then sex, They are about partnership. Learning and growing together, If sex is all that seems to be on mind then you really won't last very long in any relationship. I'm not trying to be a full blown asshole, I'm being upfront. Flat out having sex for the hell of it is a good way of showing no self respect.
Best wishes too you......
EDIT: Sorry you feel pressured from the influence of others! lol
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