|
hurts when i am fingered.
Everytime my boyfriend fingers me now, it hurts reallly bad ): It never used to hurt up until a couple weeks ago when it hurt so bad that it was a little swollen. I dont know what is causing it to hurt but I want it to stop. It dosen't hurt when we have sex though so thats the confusing part. Anyone know what could be causing this?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Injuries?
Could be a few reasons:
Are you wet enough?
Is he being rough at all? Does he have sharp skin/fingernails? It doesn't take much to cut/irritate the vagina..
My advice would be to refrain from foreplay for a while (to allow any cuts to heal if there are any) and see if it hurts with your own hand - if it doesn't, you'll know it's him, but if it hurts when you do it too, go to the doctor and explain it hurts during foreplay. There's no need to suffer with it. :)
]
The first writer may be on to something but I don't think it is dirty fingers. I think the oils in his fingers, which may not be found in his penis or is protected from you by a condom, may be irritating to your vagina.
This is going to sound silly. One way to find out is the next time your boyfriend fingers you have him wear a latex cooking glove or put a condom over his finger. If the hurting doesn't happen you have your answer. In a sense you could say you are somewhat allergic to your boyfriend or to things he comes in contact during the day which do not wash of with soap and water.
If you still hurt even with his hand protected; then I would suggest seeing your GYN as something else is wrong. Why you hurt only during foreplays mutual masturbation and not during intercourse; I cannot say. I'm not a doctor. It is worth having a doctor check this out for foreplay is a big part of good sex.
]
I think that everytime you do that have that other person wash his hands with water and anti-bacterial soap.. See if this works because his fingers could be dirty and what is causing the problem. So try this and see if it helps.
hope i helped.
blr51697
]
More Questions: |