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Sex hurts, but only with certain positons?
Hi, 19/f.
I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we have protected sex.
For some reason, sex hurts me. NOt all positions, just some.
For example, when I'm on top of him and I'm basically bent over him, it doesn't hurt.
But when I'm sitting straight up, or leaned back alittle, a sharp pain happens, and it doesn't go away until I either get off of him, or lower myself.
When he's on top of me, and I put my legs up in the air, it hurts; but when I lay my legs out and not up, it doesn't hurt.
I just don't understand how come it hurts me? I wasn't a virgin when we first started dating, and he's not like super big. He's probably 7 1/2.
Any help? Should I be concerned?
Btw, last time we had sex was Wednesday, and we used a condom, of course; and I was on top and he pushed me up where I was kind of leaning back, and the pain hurt so bad, I started screaming and crying; idk whats going on?
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The average vagina is 6 1/2" in depth. Your boyfriend is 7 1/2 inches long. This means he is hitting your cervix when you are having sex. His hitting your cervix should not be causing you the type of pain you are describing and not in just certain positions.
I am going to suggest you make an appointment as soon as possible with your gynecologist to have this checked out. There is no reason you should be in pain during sex, even if your boyfriend is occasionally hitting your cervix.
My bigger concern is the fact that you only experience this pain in certain positions. Their could be a number of different reasons for this any and all of which need to be looked at by a doctor.
I am not a doctor and I can't make any diagnoses. It would be wrong of anyone to do so since it is impossible to examine you over the web.
You know your family medical history, especially the female side of the family and you need to impart this to your doctor. In today's world of medicine more information is better for what is benign to day is tomorrows problem. The more information you and your doctor have the better decisions the two of you can make.
Not going to a doctor for fear of getting bad news is the wrong answer. Early detection of bad news most often results in 100% cures. So please go see your doctor as soon as you can get an appointment with the doctor. In the mean time avoid sexual positions that cause you pain.
I'm not trying to scare you. I truly believe in early detection. My wife is a Breast Cancer survivor because of early detection. I''m not saying this is the cause of your pain either. As said I'm not qualified to make a diagnoses. But ignoring this pain is the wrong thing to do.
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No, you shouldn't be worried if this is the only time you experience pain.
The average penis is longer than the average vagina is deep. He doesn't have to be all that big, it's basic biology. You are describing moments when he is deepest inside you and if your boyfriends penis is pushing agianst your cervix - that's gonna hurt! It just will.
The only thing I can say to you is don't do something that hurts you! It's not worth it. We're not all porn stars. Our bodies can't do everything we see in the movies, and if you bruise or wound youself internally, the pain will only be worse.
Do what feels good.
You might want to mention this pain at a regular check up (cause you are a sexually active adult women, so you should be getting regular checkups right?), but it's unlikely that it's abnormal or problematic.
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