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huge problems please please help me im desperate Posted Friday June 13 2008, 6:07 pm
this is honestly the worst day of my life. worst day. i feel crushed, and hurt and sad and i cant stop crying. everything is going wrong for me, everything. this whole entire year all i could look forward to was camp, camp, camp. [sleepaway] i met these girls last year btw. and camp is finally coming around and im sick to my stomache because of what just happened. i requested my two good friends in the OTHER bunk, and somehow the bunks this year got messed up and everyone seems to be blaming me. it wasnt my fauly at all. and all of these girls are ganging up on me toeghor and tearing me apart and no one from my bunk is backing me up. a few girls from the other bunk whom i requsted are backing me up but those girls in the other bunk who dont...
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sleep Posted Friday June 13 2008, 3:48 am
i have gotten into that pattern again. its terrible. i go to sleep at four or five in the morning and then i wake up at three pm. its disgusting. i just want to sleep but i can't. all i do is lay in bed and wish i could fall asleep. i've been a bit depressed. i also sleep a lot better when i say goodnight to my boyfriend. is there anything i can do to help me fall asleep?
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Confidence. Posted Friday June 13 2008, 2:22 am
How can you Love Yourself....but NOT be conceited?
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I'm depressed because my 9 year old cousin DIED! Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 8:27 pm
On May 22 I was given devistating news that after an 18 month battle with cancer my 9 year old cousin would die in any where from 2 days to 2 weeks. This news devistated me and left me not only depressed but i found myself isolating myself from others. Images ranging from him laying in bed paralized (he became paralized from teh waste down) to him laying there thinking (his organs began shutting downa nd week 2 he was not responding to anything) On June 4 he passed away which just sent me more into a down hill sprial. More images poured into my head and again more after his funearl on June 7. Now i find myself seeing his face every time i close my eyes-- pictures of him in his casket or burning in fire ( he was cremated after his viewing...
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uncontrollable fear. Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 4:49 am
i have a problem. sometimes i get so afraid, i get really nervous, and i freak out inside, people can only tell when i talk or walk. when i talk, i start studdering, or my voice is just shakey and when i walk, i stuble into or over things.. it's kind of funny. and i avoid looking people in the eye. i get nervous when i feel people judge me..in a bad way, when i present/ or sing in front of a class/crowd i get nervous- even if the crowd is just three people, i get nervous when driving when i don't know exactly where to go to get to where i'm going, i get nervous when i first meet people(i know everyone does), i get nevous when i talk to really pretty girls, or really hott guys. and i get nevous in many other situations. it's so stupid, and i...
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i need an opinion on depression Posted Friday June 6 2008, 1:23 pm
lets say youre in this situation. (its also mine..)
from grade 1 to 9, you had nearly straight As. you were an overachiever. your parents were proud of you. stress never got to you.
in the 10th grade, you were SOO tired of always getting the straight As and the stress got to you so much, that you just completely let yourself go. you always felt like sleeping, you would go days without eating..and days where you ate too much. you never felt like doing homework anymore and felt the need to look at the mirror and look perfect for a boyfriend more than doing work in school. you've found that you're losing friends and your grades slip slowly...to a point where you're getting Cs instead of the As you thought you would get in certain...
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Narcissistic... Posted Thursday June 5 2008, 9:58 pm
16/f. I love looking at myself in the mirror. And it's weird..because I'm not cocky and I'm not confident. But I'm like...self obsessed I guess. I spend about 30 minutes in front of a mirror before school. Everything has to be perfect. Sometimes, I'll just stand there and observe my features...and admire them. I also take a LOT of pictures of myself. SO many that there's not enought memory in my computer to store them all! And it's funny as well...because I've never had this problem before. Going through middle and elementary school, I could care less what I looked like. And in middle school and early high school, I had really bad acne problems and so I kept my face hidden from half the people half the time. Now, however, since I got a boyf...
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Help! I dont know what to do anymore with life... Posted Thursday June 5 2008, 9:00 pm
Ugh..I just feel like there's no point in living life. Like I feel like I have no meaning. I still haven't figured out what I want to do as a career and I'd love to know. I love acting though but I'd want to do something after but I just can't seem to get started in it! I'm getting so annoyed. I trusted a guy way too much. I might have sent him a 'risque' picture (nothing was revealed but it was...you know) and i thought I could trust him...we've been friends for awhile and he likes me...he was friends with my sister and thats how we met. but anyways, with the picture thing my sister came up to me at home one day and told me she knew about it...and i faked it off with a story but i donno if she bought it or not..now i always feel like she's...
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really sorry if this is too long Posted Wednesday June 4 2008, 5:40 pm
I'm your typical 14 year old freshman girl almost done with her first year of highschool(thank god). Last year though, I had REALLY high self esteem which is weird because I had braces and wasn't as pretty now, some people even called me too cocky. Over the summer, my friends and i would go to the mall and they would always be the ones to get the guys and it really lowered my confidence ever since then for some reason. Plus, this year I dealt with a lot of family issues, my parents were separated for awhile but are together now. However, now we have financial trouble and it's really tough for all of us. Just everything changed this year and I can't seem to get past it all. I gained a few pounds, I want surgery on my nose, blah blah blah. I...
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How does one achieve enlightenment/happiness/stability of mi Posted Wednesday June 4 2008, 12:15 am
I find myself constantly trying to be happy instead of just being happy. Everytime I do feel a sense of happiness and accomplishment, I let the following small bad thing bring me down.
Apparently, I'm not clinically depressed, or bipolar (I checked), so I'm just wondering, are there tips to meditate or let go, or just exercises to basically help me feel as confident as I was as a younger person?
Seriously, I'm open to anything at this point.
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my bestfriend is almost an overdoser Posted Tuesday June 3 2008, 6:44 pm
Pills are my bestfriends life. she takes so many pain killers more than i thought possible. she says its all the pain in her life pain of heartbreak, screw ups and anything else. she is always gone everyday out with her friends or anyone, but she is totally different if she doesnt take any pills that day. she is just like staring into space and very sad looking and feels empty. i can always see deep pain or sorrow in her eyes even if shes so happy. she used to cut for two years and smoke for like half a year but stopped both. she drinks but refuses to get drunk she has like one every few days but I still dont want her to have any. She says shed die with out them but she can also die with them. She is a very strong in emotion spirit or physi...
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hangovers Posted Tuesday June 3 2008, 12:49 am
im going to a party with drinking then to a thing with my family and friends after, if i get drunk what do i do to make it any better or my hangover the next day better?
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being drunk? Posted Tuesday June 3 2008, 12:47 am
theirs this party for our graduation from 8th grade and her brothers from senior in highschool, there will be drinking. im only staying at the party for like 2 hours then i have to go to my school carnival with my friends and cousins and if im drunk theyd kill me. but i wana go its one of my best friends, but if i drink more than just one thatd be bad, altho im not that light at it. if my parents or cousins do notice i drank at all and ask me, what should i say, bc if i say no and they can tell or smell it, what do i do? if i end up drunk what do i do, i have to go to the carnival after :/ what could i do to make the drunkness calm down however you say that lol eat or drink or do anything ill do it. i just need toknow before hand, its this ...
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soberrrr Posted Monday June 2 2008, 9:59 pm
whats soberr? =]
hahaaaaaaaaa
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Depression Posted Monday June 2 2008, 4:30 pm
I've had a depression problem for years, I'm on and off my medication and when I don't take my medication I sleep late, stay up all night, I'm in a bitchy mood and I can't do anything I love to do. When I'm on my medication I'm okay but I still have my up and downs.
What are helpful tips to deal with depression?
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confused with a lot Posted Monday June 2 2008, 12:38 am
ok so this might go under dating, but anyways why are women all into mind games, do they enjoy messing up guys??
oh yeah im from argentina
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Voices in my head... Posted Saturday May 31 2008, 1:53 am
Up until recently, I have never had anything like this happen to me, I have started hearing some voices in my head. Its always of somebody I know, I know I didn't imagine it, always of a female i know from my school, usually just an acquaintance or long time friend, nothing to do with attraction. It happens about 5 times a week and they always say something, similar to "Hey <name>" or just my name. When it first happened I was really freaked out, but i'm still kinda freaked when it happens just not as bad. What causes this? Stress? Can it be fixed? I know I'm not imagining this.
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do i have mental problem? Posted Friday May 30 2008, 1:19 pm
i am a student. i am suppose to finish my study a few years back. i am supose to do some work to finish my study but i kept doing other stuff until now. what i mean with other stuff is i tend to think about my problems and it made me cry. i dont knw why i would cry every time i want to study. am i creazy?
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acne Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 9:17 pm
ok,
so i usedd to have a really clear face,
and lately ive like broke out
idk if it is really bad or if it is all in my head,
but it drives me crazy.
i feel so ugly as if everyone is looking at me thinking i look like some monster, ive bascally tried everything, and it doesnt help much that i am surroundedd my girls with flawless faces,
most best friend tells me that it doesnt even look that bad, but i still feel so horrible.
any advice on to feel better about it,
or help it go away?
that would be great thanks.
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Its like I cant stand anyone around me Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 8:24 pm
Its mainly the members of my family, its like I just dont want to be around any of them, and I am constantly annoyed at nearly everything they do. My mother and father are split up, and I spend the weekend with my dad, and the week with my mom. And occasionally I visit my grandparents. Its like im the secret keeper, each "branch" (my mother/step-dad, father/step-mother, grandparents) of my family tell me negative things about one another, and tell me not to tell them. And I cant talk to anyone in my family about it because im afraid Ill just spill everything ive been told and everyone will start fighting. I have my own problems without being a therapist to my entire family!
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