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Confidence. How can you Love Yourself....but NOT be conceited?
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It's the difference between loving yourself as you are and loving yourself for who other people thing you are. ]
"Loving self and conceited are two different definitions all together."
I completely agree with the columnist who wrote that in their answer. Just because you love who you are and you're comfortable with yourself does NOT mean you are, in any way, conceited.
To love yourself, you just have to be comfortable in your own skin. You have to focus on the positive aspects of yourself rather than the negative. So, instead of thinking you're fat, or your hair is frizzy, think about how you really like your eye color, or your sense of humor. You have to love yourself, both physically and personality wise, in my opinion.
I also think that you have to really believe the compliments people give you. On the other hand, I think you also have to be able to brush of the insults and not elt them get to you, too.
I hope this helps.
-Laura. (16-f) ]
Loving self and conceited are two different definitions all together. The differences are internal and external.
To love yourself is to cherish, respect, honor, appreciate, encourage, challenge, motivate, succeed, push yourself to the limits.. POSITIVE THINGS. Making sure that you look good to feel good internally about self is not being conceited,it's loving yourself. Not giving a D about anything or anyone else but how you look is conceited.
Thinking that no one in this world looks better than you is conceited and it's vain. Loving yourself is a beautiful thing but praising yourself is conceited.
I have added some links to show you how to love yourself- check em' out.. It's very interesting and upon doing this, you will see the difference in loving self and not being conceited.
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Hope this helps ]
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