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huge problems please please help me im desperate
this is honestly the worst day of my life. worst day. i feel crushed, and hurt and sad and i cant stop crying. everything is going wrong for me, everything. this whole entire year all i could look forward to was camp, camp, camp. [sleepaway] i met these girls last year btw. and camp is finally coming around and im sick to my stomache because of what just happened. i requested my two good friends in the OTHER bunk, and somehow the bunks this year got messed up and everyone seems to be blaming me. it wasnt my fauly at all. and all of these girls are ganging up on me toeghor and tearing me apart and no one from my bunk is backing me up. a few girls from the other bunk whom i requsted are backing me up but those girls in the other bunk who dont like me, i dont care about. its the girls in my own bunk that dont like me because of this which im scared about. they were all bitching about it and yelling at me and i just broke down and couldnt stop crying. this really could be the worst day of my life ive never been so hurt by so many people before. and the sad part is they dont care they did that to me. they dont care. at all. because a few minutes ago someone was like guys i think we could just switch our bunks when we get there thats wut im doing who cares. and now they are all happy. but nobody apologized to me. i feel crushed. and, how am i supposed to go back into that bunk now? no one likes me in there. AND the bunk i originally wanted to be in, obviously i wont be in. because a few them dont want me in it. i feel so..rejected. and unwanted. i dont know what to do, this was the biggest thing i couldnt wait for this, and now im dreading it, im going to be miserable. and theres no way to switch out of that bunk. im stuck in it now with them. i hate my life. AND my parents wont buy me an ipod, [mine broke] for camp because they dont have enough money. and my grandma who is rich wont buy me one either. even though she bought my dad a wii and guiatar hero. this life sucks i hate this. and the bed cover i ordered for camp is too big and i dont have a big enough down blanket to put in there. this fucking sucks. AND exams are next week and since all this drama is happening ive had no time to study. i am so stressed right now and ughhh i hate my life i cant stop crying help me help me help me please god help me
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Calm down sweetie. Your life is not over nor does it suck as you said just because the bunk situation isn't working out exactly like you wanted it to. I doubt that they were flipping out at you because of something personal. It was probably all out of frustration because it hadn't worked out the way they wanted it to. But now, they've settled the problem amongst themselves so it's over and done with. Do you really need an apology? I wouldn't ask for one because that would stir the problem up again. Just accept the fact that the problem has been taken care of and then move on. Don't let this one little incident ruin the camp experience for you. That's not fair to yourself or your fellow campers.
Your life also sucks because your parents refuse to buy you an iPod? Well sweetie if they don't have the money, then they don't have the money. I don't really know what your financial situation is like, but if they don't have enough money to buy you some electronic thing, then once again drop it and move on. Trust me on this, parents hate it when you keep complaining and whining about some material object that you absolutely "can't live without". Let's face it, there are lots of other kids who can't have iPods and they're able to live their lives just fine without them.
Please don't let these issues get in the way of you succeeding on your exams. Honestly, all you need to do is just accept and move on.
Have fun at camp!
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okay first things first... you need to calm down and breathe. and then face facts... some girls are bit**es. they will do anything to bring you down and hurt you. and your are letting them do this because you are crying over it. you CANNOT let them know that it is bothering you. my mom always says to me that i have to "take the high road" this means that you a=have to be the bigger person and ignore the mean poeple. it is a really hard thing to do and trust me it sucks but it is just something that you must do. hwo cares if they dont like you, they are probably just jealous and bored and want to get a rise out of you, which they did. just focus on how excited you were about camp.switch into the bunk with your two best friends, if the other people in that bunk complain about it, WHO CARES! they can just get over it. and the bed cover and down blanket are just trivial things... no big deal. and then the IPOD... well we all wish we could have nice things, but we cant. just be thankful that your parents had the money to even send you to camp... i dont really think it is going to be the edn of the world if you dont have an ipod. then finals, just do your best... try your hardest, and whatever happens, Happens! at camp just try to have fun and dont worry about other people.
Good luck :)
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