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Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 5:08 pm
I came to a point in my life where I just don't like anybody I think people are real stupid they don't even use comon sense and they do stupid things all the time at least I think before I do is there something wrong with me I guess I was brought up to work hard and earn what u get but it seems to me that now days people expect everything to be hande to them on a silver plater I know wh3n I was young my dad didn't hesitgate to use a belt on me if I was to get in trouble now if you as a parent spank a child that's wrong but that's the whole problem today parents let their children control them insted of the parent controling the child why do you think the prison poulation is so huge because it started as a child NO DISIPLIN but what I'm geting at is why do I hate people
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How to make friends as the new girl in town?
Posted Thursday July 15 2010, 12:02 pm
This is kinda long but I want you to fully get where I'm coming from.. and I greatly appreciate all answers because I have nobody else to ask for help about this.
My family moved to a new town in Texas, all the way from New Jersey. Even though I've been here since March I still feel like the new girl. I'm 16 btw. So far its summer vacation and I've only hung out with a girl from school once. The rest of my summer I've pretty much spent at home on the computer, at volleyball practice, or visiting relatives. I don't want my entire summer to be a waste.. how do I make friends with people? Should I always be the one inviting them for things?
One of my regrets for the summer is I tried inviting a group of people to...
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Guys dont like tomboys
Posted Thursday July 15 2010, 12:54 am
I'm a tomboy and none of the girls like to be friends with me and boys I like only like me as a sister?
My brother is always telling me that guys don't like tomboys. most of my friends are guys or other tomboys, they're exactly like me and i'm sort of a misfit or a person who doesn't fit in with anyone else. I have a couple of girls that are my friends. I still haven't had a first kiss yet. And I'm such a tomboy that one of the guys i like called me his sister. I don't like dress,skirts and heels. I don't feel comfortable in them. Most of the girls wear them and it always gets my guy friends attention and I don't ear that stuff. My friends tell me that they don't think i'm ugly they just think of me as a home girl because I like the ...
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Friend getting harrassed.
Posted Wednesday July 14 2010, 11:55 pm
17/f. My best friend is getting harrassed by a boy she very briefly new. They went on like 3 dates. One day, he started accussing her of this weird stuff that never happened. After that, hes been sending her texts like "fuck you" .."I just wante to let you know.. Your a fucking idiot." they dated in january, and he is still continuing this. Also, my friend recently had an eating disorder. (almost died) he was making fun of her for it. This guy is just such a jerk. His best friend dated this one girl I knew and he only dated her to have sex with her and cheated on her all the time that jerk found it "funny." he just isn't a good person and we don't know what to do to get him to leAve her alone.
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concerned for my best friend
Posted Wednesday July 14 2010, 11:11 pm
my best friend plays a sport with me, shes really good at it and so am I. But even when she makes a couple mistakes, she beats herself up about it. She has meltdowns and gets so upset. I used to be able to help her but now we live in different towns, but talk constantly and always visit each other. I just dont know what to do or say to help her. I've told her that it's not a big deal, she's good, etc. but nothing works. Help? Ps. she's had a bad past of cutting and problems with family. Shes getting over it now, and we are closer than ever, but Im convinced her past might tie into this situation.
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what do i doo?
Posted Wednesday July 14 2010, 11:31 am
so i have a really good friend and i want to invite her to my birthday. the thing is, i dated her brother (how we met) and he found out about the party and is going to tell their mom she's going and drinking and stuff if he doesn't get an invite. he's really rude and obnoxious and i don't want him there. but i really want my friend to go and not get in trouble. so what do i do?
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Popularity drives people to evil
Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 8:15 pm
OK so i am 13 and boys keep trying to feel me up i keep wondering why then my friend tells me she told a boy i would do anything cause i was desperate.Why did she do this?To be popular! Please what should i do i am dying from embarrisment :(
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How do you get a guy to not see you as a sister without acting slutty?
Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:49 pm
Every time I start talking to the guy I like (were the same age), and I tell him that I like him in the end, he always says that he only sees me as a "sister" type of thing... I always do everything I could do show him I care about him, I don't think Im that unattractive and he told me he thinks i'm pretty, and we have so much in common with each other... but why does he never like me back??? Im confused and hurt... he doesn't notice how much I care and always ends up going for the slutty girl... why?! He tells me he likes me as a sister but then he turn around and start flirting with me, singing and acting sexually suggestive. Why does he flirt with me if Im like a sister?
Last night i asked him what his feelings a...
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Why would a guy not want to date an innocent girl?
Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:40 pm
Guys say that I am too innocent and wouldn't want to date me bc they could really mess up things. Why would guys not be attracted to innocent girls?
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friends with benefits questions
Posted Friday July 9 2010, 4:38 pm
does this work?
is it good?
is better then not haveing them at all?
can you get hurt?
how does it work?
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My Ex-bestfriend won't forgive me!
Posted Friday July 9 2010, 11:09 am
14 years old/ male
I'm from Lebanon
My Bestfriend was mocking me at class. I got mad because i never expected my friend to hurt me as such. I got mad, stood up, and attacked him. Plus, I insulted him in front of the class and told if he were a man to stand up in front of me so he got scared! Now, I'm telling him i'm sorry but he's not forgiving me. His mom talked to me but that's not helping. He keeps on insulting me via Facebook. Moreover, our fiendship was extremely tight... Should I keep on trying to regain the friendship or should i let it go?
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3rd grade.
Posted Thursday July 8 2010, 11:52 pm
I met this boy in third grade, we became good friends, who knew we would still be friends all the way until 11th grade, best at that. Now, I tell him most things I wouldn't tell my girlfriends because they like to gossip, with him, I know he will keep everything to himself if I tell him. He tells me about this girl he likes, he sends me songs that he writes for his guitar, we are both in the marching band and we talk alot after practice, we text a lot, we talk about anything too, private life, our brothers, our parents, our plans for the week. We know pretty much all there is to know about a friend, which is weird because he doesn't open up easily. When he's with his guy friends, he laughs alot and he talks kind of loud, when he's around me...
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please i need to know if i need to get over him
Posted Thursday July 8 2010, 3:06 pm
okay..so a long time ago i asked a question (http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=571372) this is rediculous. i know. it's been so long and i still have a problem...i still have feelings for this kid. why? i always ask myself why? what's so special about him? were still not close anymore. but whenever we talk it's magic at how happy and excited i feel. it's strange. i can never forget about him. it aggrivating though. i think i have an imprint on him. everytime i see him...everything changes. i just feel so dismantled. like i feel fine and i can have a normal life. like other boys, enjoy time with friends. but when i see him. everything just dissapears. anything that he does. movement of a arm, smile, slouch, walk. i admire everything. ...
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Im Going Back To Texting
Posted Thursday July 8 2010, 3:01 pm
I hate it when you call a girl and the both of you talk then she says after a while that she has to do something and she'll call you back. And it's not like you said ANYTHING creepy or weird to freak her out and you never hear from her until the next time that YOU call HER back. Is there something weird about that or am I just tripping? lol
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Girlfriend dumped me?
Posted Wednesday July 7 2010, 1:16 pm
my girlfriend dumped me cause she found out i wear womens underwear, they were not even very girly , yes the were pink but she said real men dont wear them type of things and giggled and walked off, whta shud i do ?
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I let a guy I like borrow something and he destroyed it!
Posted Wednesday July 7 2010, 1:23 am
Ok im 14 female.i have this hat that all my friends love and it has alot of memoires with it.I let this guy that i sorta like borrow it untill we were goin to a lock in.when the lock in was over he wouldnt give it back so i was like watever.i just found out that he let it get shreded from a dog.idk what to do because im really mad at him
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uughh this has bin goin on 4 a yr!
Posted Tuesday July 6 2010, 11:43 am
ok so i was friends with his boy. but this other boy, came up to me while i was talking to my friend; and got rly offended because of something i said which was tru, and he completly took it out on me, and said i liked this friend who is a boy. which was totally false. even if i did i never told anyone, so he lied! he lies all the time! so the guy friend asked me if i did liked him. i told him "no" which was true. we were back to being friends. but the other boy who lied about the situation said it again to get me mad. and i think that time the guy friend beleived the jerk. so now we haven't talked for a rly long time. what do i do?
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I have a bff and her dad bullies me all the time!
Posted Tuesday July 6 2010, 11:35 am
yes i have a very close friend of mine. but when ever i go over to her house her dad bullies me. first i thought it was just teasing, but it got worse. and i love my friend, but she does NOTHING to tell her dad to 'stop!'and it aggravates me. i think the dad is obsessed w/ me. and i dont do anything to him. last time i slept over which was like a couple days ago he grabbed my face, cursed at me, flipped me off, and teased me the WHOLE TIME! i felt soo unfortable. soooowhat should i do? thanx xoxxox (keep in mind this person only does it 2 me)
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I feel so lonely
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 9:03 pm
I feel...Lonely. It's not like I don't have SOME friends. I do, it's just that, I never want to be with them until I am on the verge of tears.
Recently, I have been rather taken with my best friend and I'm close with him and his family, but then on Facebook, I see that he went to a nearby beach with his family and a girl(who I'm also friends with).
Now, this girl is close friends with his older brother and maybe that's why she was there. I know I'm being clingy and paranoid but I just feel that I need to move on.
How do I do that? This boy has taken 5 years of my life with him. I want to make other friends, closer friends, and maybe be with someone. But, how do I go about it? Especially in the summer?
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age defference
Posted Monday July 5 2010, 2:52 pm
ok well i am currently single. im not really lookin for someone but then i am. it seems like all the guys that i am somewhat interested in are older than me. im 22. the guys that im interested in and are interested in me are in thier 30s. is it bad to be 22 and interested in a guy in thier 30s? i mean they have been through more and already pretty much mature.what do you think? what is to much of a age difference for a 22 year old?
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