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Guys dont like tomboys
I'm a tomboy and none of the girls like to be friends with me and boys I like only like me as a sister?
My brother is always telling me that guys don't like tomboys. most of my friends are guys or other tomboys, they're exactly like me and i'm sort of a misfit or a person who doesn't fit in with anyone else. I have a couple of girls that are my friends. I still haven't had a first kiss yet. And I'm such a tomboy that one of the guys i like called me his sister. I don't like dress,skirts and heels. I don't feel comfortable in them. Most of the girls wear them and it always gets my guy friends attention and I don't ear that stuff. My friends tell me that they don't think i'm ugly they just think of me as a home girl because I like the same things they do and I hang with them too much and I don't dress girly. Is it bad to be such a tomboy that most girls would've dressed nicer like a dress or skirts everyday but I wear jeans and tennis shoes? And how do i know if a guy likes me?
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Let me just say this: DON'T CHANGE JUST TO PLEASE OTHER PEOPLE. Stay true to yourself. I'm a pretty big tomboy myself and I'm proud of it. I have friends that make me happy and a boyfriend who is really great. He likes me just the way I am. Stick it out, girl, cuz if you act like yourself, things will fall into place. It might take time but stay patient.
If you ever want to talk, here's my email:
bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
c ya and good luck!
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when a guy likes you you will now and i like like tomboys more trust me i m a guy good luck
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Don't ever be ashamed of who you are
I myself am the biggest tomboy I've ever met and to this day I couldn't be any happier to be one.
I also would never wear skirt, dresses, heels, makeup, etc.
Different guys like different girls, Your brother is only stating his opinion on what he thinks of tomboys. Does every guy think this? No.
Some guys find it extremely attractive in females when they express themselves. Some guys feel the female isn't afraid to be themselves, they aren't insecure and most of all they don't care what other people think about them.
Just be yourself, Be happy with it. When a guy likes you, You will know. They will flirt with you, They will smile, They will sometimes stare at you, Act nervous etc.
Don't change who you are, Be happy to be the girl in baggy pants and a tee shirt!
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Hey there,
It is not bad to be a tomboy. I wear jeans and runners pretty much all the time, I basically never wear make up, and I don't wear dresses at all unless its for something real formal. I only have a few friends that are girls and a few friends that are guys, but it is alright.
If a guy likes you, he will stare at you, not be able to finish a sentance and then look at you funny, blush, touch your leg/hand/shoulder, sit real close to you, try to make you laugh, or do sweet things for you. Such as opening a door while smiling at you, buying you a drink when you could pay for it, or helping you with homework even though you never asked.
If you want a guy to like you, get out of the sister zone and flirt with him! Look into his eyes and smile, wink at him, or when he is sitting on a chair come up behind him and put your arms around his neck. Anytime you touch his arm/leg it will send a 'I don't want to be just friends' message.
It is completely normal to be a tomboy. You just have to find common ground with people and then you will be friends with anyone. All that stuff about guys don't like tomboys... thats just for those non-believers ;)
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