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what do i doo?
so i have a really good friend and i want to invite her to my birthday. the thing is, i dated her brother (how we met) and he found out about the party and is going to tell their mom she's going and drinking and stuff if he doesn't get an invite. he's really rude and obnoxious and i don't want him there. but i really want my friend to go and not get in trouble. so what do i do?
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You should give your friend the invite in front of her mom. Or tell her mom about what her brother will do.
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Give your friend the invite while the mother is standing there. Tell her that there will be nothing that that she wouldn't aprove. You shouldn't just not invite her based off of what her brother might do. All that matters is that your happy with who is there and you wouldn't be happy if you didn't at least try to invite your friend. Have fun and good luck :)
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I don't understand why she'd be in trouble for being invited to your party, unless she's a minor and you're intending on serving her alcohol. Otherwise, she and her brother are two separate individuals, and your friendship with her has absolutely nothing to do with him, at all.
If there's nothing illegal going on and the party will at least have one responsible adult present, then there should be no issue. Even if her brother's a supposed immature brat - they are not adjoined at the hip, and you do not owe him an invitation of any sort.
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