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uughh this has bin goin on 4 a yr!
ok so i was friends with his boy. but this other boy, came up to me while i was talking to my friend; and got rly offended because of something i said which was tru, and he completly took it out on me, and said i liked this friend who is a boy. which was totally false. even if i did i never told anyone, so he lied! he lies all the time! so the guy friend asked me if i did liked him. i told him "no" which was true. we were back to being friends. but the other boy who lied about the situation said it again to get me mad. and i think that time the guy friend beleived the jerk. so now we haven't talked for a rly long time. what do i do?
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Well, if he was your friend he would have believed you no matter what, end of story. But, it seems you see something in this friend so some ways you can mend the friendship. Having people who are pathological liars are hard to get around, but if you can prove or catch him in a lie, you can prove that you were telling the truth the entire time. Sometimes in situations like these, you have to apologize even when it isn't your fault. It may seem like alot of effort to help a friendship get on the right path, but if it something you want to do, this is the way to do it. The thing about guys is it is hard for them to see a girls point of view. The only way to amend that situation is to apologize for everything that happened between you too.
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