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Friend getting harrassed.
17/f. My best friend is getting harrassed by a boy she very briefly new. They went on like 3 dates. One day, he started accussing her of this weird stuff that never happened. After that, hes been sending her texts like "fuck you" .."I just wante to let you know.. Your a fucking idiot." they dated in january, and he is still continuing this. Also, my friend recently had an eating disorder. (almost died) he was making fun of her for it. This guy is just such a jerk. His best friend dated this one girl I knew and he only dated her to have sex with her and cheated on her all the time that jerk found it "funny." he just isn't a good person and we don't know what to do to get him to leAve her alone.
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First of all I'm very sorry for your best friend, people can be very cruel. Tell your friends to ignore the texts she doesnt need to reply to them. She needs to show the texts to her parents, and show the police them. You can get fined for that I think, they have a new policy for it? He needs to stop. I'm very sorry about your friend, with the eating disorder..my friend has an eating disorder and I understand. Show the authoritys, tell them this guys name and adresse..(if you know it) hopefully they will take care of it.
Goodluck,
Emily <3
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Save all the emails, Texts, Voice mails and go to the police. This is wrong
I've dealt with this sort of crap before, Save it all and go to the police, They will then likely give the gentlemen a phone call and warning to knock off the shit.
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Show the e-mails to a trusted adult. They will know how to proceed. You can get the school involved so the admin handles it and knows about it or the police too and charge him with harassment. Either way once you involve adults he will have to stop. Something is clearly wrong with him.
He seems to be a head case. Tell your friend not to get worried and that it will get resolved. Don't keep this a secret from adults as that will only help things escalate in intensity rather than stop.
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