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I have a bff and her dad bullies me all the time!
yes i have a very close friend of mine. but when ever i go over to her house her dad bullies me. first i thought it was just teasing, but it got worse. and i love my friend, but she does NOTHING to tell her dad to 'stop!'and it aggravates me. i think the dad is obsessed w/ me. and i dont do anything to him. last time i slept over which was like a couple days ago he grabbed my face, cursed at me, flipped me off, and teased me the WHOLE TIME! i felt soo unfortable. soooowhat should i do? thanx xoxxox (keep in mind this person only does it 2 me)
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Tell an adult, This is WRONG
Your friend might not be saying anything because her father could be abusive towards her, It's just like the last person said below.
I would tell an adult that you trust, Your mother, Your father someone. Next time you go over bring a voice recorder and record it and bring it too the police. This guy needs to be arrested, He won't feel so bad when his buddy waits for him in a jail cell
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Situations like this can't be ignored, maybe your friend is afraid to say something. Let's say for example, she stands up for you, and later she is beaten for it. I am not saying the father is abusive but this could be a factor. Most abusive children do not say anything to anyone if its the case. Some ways to avoid it is to avoid the situation entirely. Tell your friend, you don't feel comfortable being in her house because of what he dad does and says. There other things you can do like her staying at your house or you guys going to the movies. Also, another solution is to say if you don't stop bullying me, I will call services on you. Techinically he is doing what is called sexual harrassment, he doesn't necessarily have to do anything sexual to you to be considered a factor. I realize that you don't want to get her father in trouble nor her, but if you don't say something and stand up, it will continue and may get worse.
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