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Sweet Sixteen Party For My Immature Friends And I?
Posted Wednesday August 11 2010, 5:48 pm
My friends and I are so immature for our age, we're all sixteen, seventeen, eighteen and we still make that's what she said jokes and talk about nonsense. I love them to death and we always have fun when we are together. I am planning my sweet sixteen happening in just a few days, all the invites are out and all the food and such is planned. I just want to get your guys' take on this and see is this sounds fun. My party is going to be in my backyard, where we can be as loud as we want and have the most fun we can, everyone will know where everything is because it's at a familiar place. I am having my ma set out my chocolate fountain and we are going to have everything known to man that goes good with chocolate out. We are going to have a bu...
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Stingy With My Best Friend??
Posted Tuesday August 10 2010, 10:36 pm
Okay so me and my bestfriend are getting closer then ever. We txt each other all day,we call and gossip like teenage girls do and we juss laugh at juss about everything. We are sooooo much alike its scary. But the thing is, we are a trio with this other gurl but i dont like her. Okay,me and her have been friends in the past but its like we share the same best friend and i absolutely hate it. I mean i juss dont like her. She so whiney and baby-ish. She's just not the type of person i would like to hang with. I know that my bestfriend can be friends with whom ever she wants but how do I tell her i dont wanna hang with this third person. I hate when she invites her out with us when we go to the movies,restuarants,ect. And lately my bestfriend ...
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I'm bisexual but I'm afraid to out
Posted Tuesday August 10 2010, 12:51 pm
Hi I'm Jay and I'm from the Philippines. I'm 18yrs old and bisexual. In our culture this is frowned upon so I'm scared to tell my friends and family. I'm worried that they will not accept my sexuality.I also find it hard to be in a relationship because I always feel unsatisfied. I'm female and a college sophomore
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shes such a bad friend to me...
Posted Tuesday August 10 2010, 11:04 am
I have this friend who i used to be best best best friends with. now we barley talk and i dont know why. I always ask her to hang out, i give her tons of space, and she says she always cant hang because she has tennis. Thing is, she never trys to talk to me (i always have to start the convo), and she keeps making time for other people, who arnt even her friends. She used to complain about these people all the time to me, saaying that they are blowing her off because they got "better offers". Yet she never does anything about it...and still chooses to hang with them over me it seems...
I dont know what to do. I'm going with her to a concert in a few weeks, but we rarly talk(since i decided to stop trying). This has happened ...
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ex boyfriends new girl
Posted Monday August 9 2010, 2:23 pm
Uhmmm. Okay. So my boyfriend used to date this girl. Then they broke up and he started dating me. Well WE broke up and now he's kind of sort of going back to her? But whatever, I don't really care, I think theyre good for eachother. She cheated on him, he cheated on me, they deserve eachother. Anyway. She's never really done anything to me... She goes to a rival school and my basketball team has always just kind of hated her. Cause she's a really really bad sport. But now hse wants to hang out with me and my friend... cause she was "getting bad vibes" anddd now I guess we're hanging out. I don't know what to do! I dont' know if she hates me or not and it's all really awkward right now... I don't know, I don'tknow her that well but...
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How do I stop being like a goodie two shoes....?
Posted Monday August 9 2010, 3:17 am
Okay I'm 17, I've never had a boyfriend, I don't party that much, i get really good grades, my GPA is a 3.8, I rarely ever get in trouble with my parents, I've never really done anything wild and crazy...i do hang out with my friends usually on weekends.... Ive never had sex with my boyfriend.
I don't know I just feel like I'm extremely...boring. I want to party, have fun, and stuff like that. I feel like other people see me as boring and I feel boring. I don't wanna do drugs, have sex and fail in school, most people at school do that but I don't want people to see me as a boring goody two shoes. I just feel like I'm going to have an extremely boring life, I'm scared it will be the same way when I go to college.Some people te...
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Friend doesn't invite me places with her friends
Posted Sunday August 8 2010, 10:06 pm
My best friend does not invite me places with her other friends. I've never met anyone she is friends with. To be honest, I'm not even sure who her friends are. I know who her one is, but that's it. I don't know if she is embarrassed by them or what. She is kind of obbsessed with looks and that kind of thing and her friends are really unattractive. But I don't know.. I always introduce her to all my friends and have us all hang out. Why doesn't she invite me? I don't really care to hang out with her friends, it would just be nice to be invited, because it does upset me sometimes. Does everyone keep
there friends seperate..? None of my other friends do this..
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When a guy tells his friend that he thinks you are too innocent ?
Posted Sunday August 8 2010, 4:39 am
When a guy tells his friend that he thinks you are too innocent what the hell does that even mean?
My guy friend was trying to hook me up with his friend, so we all went out and i asked my friend what he thought and he said, i was alright looking but was too innocent, what does that even mean? please help! and what do you recommend i do for the future?
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My friend is being annoying
Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 9:29 pm
18/f my best friend Nikki is really getting on my nerves. So I used to have this boyfriend who I was like in love with, chase. Chase and I were very close and dated for three years. Nikki and I were not friends when chase and I were together. Nikki has never met chase. But for some reason Nikki always has these stories to tell me about chase. And I've told her I don't care what chase is doing. but she always brings him up. I went to a really big high school. A lot of people don't know eachother. So I know she is bringing him up to people. And people I am friends with at other schools, she's told people she is friends with them. She ha never met my friends from other schools. I don't know why she doe this but I get really upset when she does...
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conversation topics?
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 12:56 am
ok so, i met these guys at the local pool with my friends. some of my friends go there all the time so they knew each other, there are 3 guys and one came up to me and said "you're too quiet" but im usually really fun to be around, i just ran out of things to talk about even though i dont know how thats possible lol. we talked about really random weird funny stuff like tan lines and strippers, teenage stuff haha but i don't know what to talk to him about?
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Not talking anymore...
Posted Tuesday August 3 2010, 12:10 am
This girl has been my friend for a while, and about 6 months ago we started getting really close. Then, just in the past week or two, she doesn't seem to want to talk to me anymore.
She ignores most of what I say, and when she doesn't she always seems mad at me for some reason. Then when I ask if I did something wrong she'll say something like, "No, I'm just tired..." or, "I don't really want to talk to anyone right now." Then when I log onto facebook a day later I'll see that immediately after I log off she's joking around and talking with a bunch of people...
I'm not controlling, and I'm definitely okay with her having other friends, but it's just weird how she went from basically being m...
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How To Get Away?
Posted Monday August 2 2010, 12:49 am
So Lately I have been feeling so anti-social. Its Just come to a point were I really dont wanna be bothered at all!! I love my friends but i just wanna get out the "lets party scene. And i also sometimes feel as if my friends really dont care. Example: whenever i feel the need to talk to my friends whether its about personal issues or boys or life period their never around. But the minute i dont txt or call like I normally would, im told that I "act funny". Whats'up with that? I just dont know what to do. I really feel that I need to breakaway and do my own thing. Please help cause im so clueless=(
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old bestfriend vs. new?
Posted Sunday August 1 2010, 7:39 pm
the title really doesnt explain my problem, but its the closest thing to it that i could think of.
so after 8th grade last year, (im going to be a sophomore) i switched high schools, along with many other friends of mine. but, one of my bestfriends, stayed. now, we have been bestfriends since 5th grade, and we used to hangout every weekend. now that we are going into our second year of being at different schools, i feel like things are changing and we arent hanging out as much. maybe its because shes spending time with her sister thats going to college in the fall? i dont know, but thats really not my issue. we are making a plan to hangout, but im just scared that it will be awkward when we do hangout since we havent seen eac...
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Guy friend treats me like a little kid, how do I stop it?
Posted Saturday July 24 2010, 8:31 am
I know this older guy and he's hit on me before but he also treats me like as if i'm his little sister or something. At first I thought he was a gentleman (he would walk me back to my place even if it was far away just because he wanted to make sure I was safe) but then it started to get kinda crazy. I live downtown in a big city, and now he wants me not to go out unless I'm with somebody. I understand his worry, but it was noon in bright daylight on one of the busiest streets in the city. He also lectures me if i lie to my parents or anything like that and i kinda get the feeling that he thinks it would be better if i just stayed home and never go out because when I do stay home he tells me that he thinks it's good for me not to go...
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Do bestfriends finger each other?
Posted Friday July 23 2010, 3:28 am
I've known this girl (Kylie) since I was a kid. She's nice and we're pretty close and I would have said we were best friends until a few days ago. The other day we were talking to our other group of friends about being best friends and asking who was their best friend in the group. I know, odd discussion probably. Anyways, Kylie says she use to be bestfriends with this other girl from another school but isn't any more because she went around her school bragging to people that she fingered Kylie when they had sleepovers. Kylie is like, "That's what best friends do though! OMG!" and went on about how the other girl was being cold and cruel and how it totally made her not want to be friends with the girl anymore.
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boys as friends
Posted Thursday July 22 2010, 9:56 pm
i had 4 guy bff. but three of them hate me for no reason. and so one of my friends is realy cool hes still my bff. but anyway i love him like a brother we have laughs together like sayin he looks like justin bieber did when he was younger. and when hes hurt i help him. but we fight but then i want him to be my bff again because boys are usually better friend then girls. right. because they dont gossip. so is it true boys are better friends than girls and were we ment to be friends
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fighting with bffltgst
Posted Monday July 19 2010, 9:20 pm
ive heard things that if you fight with your friend once in your whole friendship then you arent realy friends is that true cause my bfftltgst(bffltgst)
and like 1 or 2 minutes later we make up were us ment to be friends because i love her like a sister and i would hate if we were not friends i would hate that please tell me the answer
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How do I hang out with people
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 3:32 pm
So I'm new to a town and theres absolutely nothing to do at my house. I can only watch tv, or go on the computer. I don't have any tv/computer games.. I don't have a pool, I don't have any crafts.. my computer doesn't have webcam, and I don't have any other cool things to be able to entertain someone else.
So in my life I've rarely ever invited people to my house cause I have no idea what to do! I feel awkward at the idea of being a host.. but I have great time at other people's houses. How can I learn to be better at just hanging out with people? I'm very sociable but I don't have a lot of experience like going to friends houses or anything.. which makes me socially inept. it sucks cause when I look back I dont have experien...
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everyone thinks i'm bad for no reason
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 10:52 am
Erm,hi first time being here...I want to ask some advice here since no one in real life wanted to help me...You see,i''m 13,female and i'm all what you category are ugly and fat.Sure you must be thinking that 'geez,of cause people hate you because you're fat and ugly' sure sure sure,i get that a lot of times in other websites but i hope here will be a little different.
You see,i maybe fat and ugly but i have brains,i got the 3rd highest score in my class despite my sportsmanship score.I'm an artist too and i don't get mad easily or easily be offended but this problem has gone too far.I've been told by my friends that i'm perfect from their bullshitng lie,they talk at me and make friends with me but when i needed help or when i appro...
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im boring
Posted Sunday July 18 2010, 2:07 am
basically
im shy, always have been
recently started hanging out with new people plus my best friend. before that it was literally always me and my best friend just hanging out, we didnt have anyone else to chill with. now theres more people. but they all think im socially retarded and never talk. and my best friend is whatever. but now she is getting invited places and im not. and it sucks. a lot. and since i would ALWAYS hang out with her pretty mucch wherever we went, it sucks even more, cause i dont have anything to do half the time. it makes me feel like shit because they all think im boring and dont talk.. i do talk though, maybe not a lot, and im not the craziest person ever, but i just feel like no one ever listens. an...
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