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everyone thinks i'm bad for no reason
Erm,hi first time being here...I want to ask some advice here since no one in real life wanted to help me...You see,i''m 13,female and i'm all what you category are ugly and fat.Sure you must be thinking that 'geez,of cause people hate you because you're fat and ugly' sure sure sure,i get that a lot of times in other websites but i hope here will be a little different.
You see,i maybe fat and ugly but i have brains,i got the 3rd highest score in my class despite my sportsmanship score.I'm an artist too and i don't get mad easily or easily be offended but this problem has gone too far.I've been told by my friends that i'm perfect from their bullshitng lie,they talk at me and make friends with me but when i needed help or when i approach them they would "Shoo shoo you ugly pig,we don't know you".BUT when i don't talk to them they would scream or yelled at me calling me names like an anti-social pig.Seriously,is someone who is ignored by a friend is labeled as anti-social,from what the dictionary said it is not.
And what worse is,they act kindly at me but in own territory,they would plot to make my life more miserable.Just like 3 days ago when they 'accidentally' slipped an un-washable paint on my REPORT CARD.If its anything else i wouldn't mind,but my report card is everything i got in middle school.And what sickens me the most,when i report to the teacher,guess what?The teacher said that i'm the one who in fault!I protest and told him truthfully and i almost cry and beg to him that i am clean and to renew my report card but hell no,the bastard teacher practically took out the ranking list and put a "FAILED" chop on my name!And to think that i studied like mad to get the highest score and now all the hard work is lost,gone like the wind.
I asked my parents for help and drag them to the principal office to make a damned report.Hours and hours of discussing and instead of advising and helping me.The so-called justice principal suggest to my parents to kick me OUT of the school and go find a psychologist.I'm not mad,they are!Seriously,am i that hateful to them?just because i'm a 'pig' doesn't means that i can't change.And so,my parents take actions with the director of the school who thank god who is my uncle.The school agrees to take me in but in one condition that i start failing and be an outcast of the society.Now that got me mad,really mad.Being an outcast in one thing i totally can do but failing my only hope in life in outrageous!...
And so,i'm here sitting on the computer chair just to wait any calls from other school to say that i'm accepted to their education haven. So before i go to any new school,can anyone tell me how NOT to be hated and how to change my physical appearance?
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Well changing your physical appearance is just a matter of diet & exercise. You aren't stupid so you know that already. Just a matter of doing something about it. Its not always easy to get started but once you get in a routine it does get easier. There
are many healthy diet & exercise programs online. He hasn't been on in a while, but will get notice if you want to ask a question...this guy is a fitness instructor & will give you good sound advice if you send to his inbox. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
As far as getting along with others...Just be yourself. I know, I know that's what everyone says right? But if you want to be happy in life you have to live it as yourself. If you do that and don't go out of your way trying to be someone you're not...people who will truly like you will find you.
Best of luck. :)
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Act cool and above the people at this new school, let the people come to you draw them in with your great qualites you don't have to be physicaly attractive to be worshiped or liked. Some actors are not the prettiest person in the world.
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wow, I gotta say you have gone through quite a journey, a crazy one at that! I can tell you one thing though people are always going to be rude and ignorant so don't worry too much about what people have to say... don't even react to it... keep a positive mind and go on move with you day and life be happy by going through life the positive way and not let anyone or anything at all get in the way of you being the best happy person you can possibly be! I know you are strong and I know you can manage to enjoy life and the amazing things it has to offer. You do not need to change your physical appearance to make others happy... if people are indeed you true REAL friends, they will accept you and love you just for who you are and not make fun of you to the point that it really hurts you. Yes people are going to make fun everywhere you go but you have to learn how to be strong and not let that effect you in a negative way instead, laugh at the world! take that negativity and laugh at it! make fun of their remarka they are foolish and they are the joke! not you! people like that are not worth bothering with because they themselves are not as happy as they can be. be friendly to others and dont get too angry or react in a negative way when people have something smart to say just talk to them and explain how you are feeling and tell them to stop talking to you like that or to stop making fun of you... let them know how it is you feel when they say those things and surely and hopefully if they are real friends they will stop.
- as of your health, loosong weight and keeping healthy is key to making life easier so go ahead and work-out take a 30 min. walk or jog or even get into some sort of sport! you are a creative person already! go for it live life and be happy you and every person in this world deserves to be.
I wish you the best!
-trueadvice3
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