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How To Get Away?
So Lately I have been feeling so anti-social. Its Just come to a point were I really dont wanna be bothered at all!! I love my friends but i just wanna get out the "lets party scene. And i also sometimes feel as if my friends really dont care. Example: whenever i feel the need to talk to my friends whether its about personal issues or boys or life period their never around. But the minute i dont txt or call like I normally would, im told that I "act funny". Whats'up with that? I just dont know what to do. I really feel that I need to breakaway and do my own thing. Please help cause im so clueless=(
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Its normal to want some time away from your friends to think. I do that a lot too but keep in mind that true friends would still be there to support you. No matter how long you have not hang out or communicated know that there would be someone that would welcome you back. Take all the time you need to be alone and to find your self. If they are really your true friends they would understand. Mine did and now our bond is even stronger.
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i agree with bliz. i had freinds like this.. they are still frinds today althothe are certain people id teel certain thigns to.
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Sounds like you are due for a change of friends. You seem to have "outgrown" this group and are ready for more mature relationships and friends.
Think of some people who are not into the party scene who you think you would like to get to know. Strike up a conversatiion and take it from there.
Don't go out of your way to dump your old frineds, there may be some who have the same hunger you do - for more meaningful relationships who will be emboldened by your move.
Maybe go out for the school play or join clubs at school that are outside of your previous activities. (As a former director I can tell you, a good prop coordinator is always needed!) That can be a great way to get to know new people.
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