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im boring
basically
im shy, always have been
recently started hanging out with new people plus my best friend. before that it was literally always me and my best friend just hanging out, we didnt have anyone else to chill with. now theres more people. but they all think im socially retarded and never talk. and my best friend is whatever. but now she is getting invited places and im not. and it sucks. a lot. and since i would ALWAYS hang out with her pretty mucch wherever we went, it sucks even more, cause i dont have anything to do half the time. it makes me feel like shit because they all think im boring and dont talk.. i do talk though, maybe not a lot, and im not the craziest person ever, but i just feel like no one ever listens. and i wasnt supposed to find this out but this one kid told this girl that he forgot to say bye to me but "its not like she was there anyway" ... hate myself. it just sucks so much and idk what to do about this cause theyre all immature. like YES im quiet. its part of my personality idk why its such a big deal. im not mute. people suck. sorry for ranting. this isnt even a question but more of a whats your opinion/rate my friends on a scale of horrible to bffs. ughh
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well i m a bit shy and it's hard for me to make friends some times and i just started to speak up and be louder you should try
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Listen up. One of my best friends is shy and timid and may not speak as much as well, but that doesn't mean she's boring. :) What I really like about her is that she's a very kind person and whenever she has something to say, it's something meaningful. If your friends don't appreciate you the way you are, maybe they're not your true friends after all. There's nothing wrong with you. Maybe you should just try considering a new group of friends. Move along with people that love you and see all the good in you. I'm not saying to hang out with other quiet people just because you're quiet. I honestly don't know how that would turn out, :) but I CAN tell you that I'm very crazy, my friend is very shy and whenever we hang out together it's just alot of laughs, alot of fun, and alot of loudness. Don't worry you'll break out of your timid state whenever you find that right group of people you're comfortable with, that make you happy, and that make you laugh all the time. 'Cause after all, what are friends for. :) Later, people that didn't appreciate you will realize what a great person they lost. :)
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