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really inlove or odd obession???


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:54 am

me and my boyfriend have been pretty serious for about a year. but at the same time tryign to keep it calm.. we dont talk every day.. or see eachother EVERYDAY.. we dont go to school together or anything.. im SOOO inlove with him.. for about 6 or more months i have been waking up in the middle of the night.. like i dont want to sleep because hes not with me, or i jsut cant stop thinking about it. thinking about things wev gone out and did.. or what were goign to do.. or jsut thinking about him. it seems to wake me up and sometimes i cant even get back to sleep... does this seem like im obessed??? is this unhealthy?? by the way im 18/f.. thanks for any opinions and advice.

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cought between the two.


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:02 am

ohkay well i have this boyfriend and i have been with him for a year and i really do love and care for him but i ran into my middle school crush the other day and it turns out he is a major hottie. and i was up talking to him almost all night. i think i kinda like him.

i love my boyfriend now, but how do i know if i wouldnt love the other guy just as much?

what should i do? jeeez....


17-f

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Okay, there's this one guy...


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 10:51 am

There's this one guy I know and I have had, like, the MAJOR hots for him...I know that he knows that I like him...But there's a problem. I get super nervous around guys that I like. Most of the time, I'm outgoing and bubbly, as my friends say, but like I said...It only happens when I'm around guys that I like.
I can't seem to get enough courage to talk to him or even stand by him! I need help, fast!
Does anyone have some tips that I can use to get around this obstacle and make my move?!?

*Abra Apocalypse*

F/15

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In Love


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 6:31 am

I am so in love with my boyfriend and i even made him a youtube video about it, and i say it all the time. But somehow i just dont think thats enough. is there any way else i csn show him i love him?
14/Fm

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my friend's crush


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 6:20 am

15.f

hey i have this friend, same age, and over the summer she started talking to an upperclassman guy via a social networking website. well, all in all, he's kind of a player & she ended up telling him she likes him after they hooked up a few times. he seemed really happy & all, but never admitted to liking her back, and now they're talking less and less. she feels really badly because had she not told him she liked him, he would have still wanted to hang out with her & such. so he was pretty much just using her sort of to get some.

i KNOW she should stop liking him, but if YOU were my friend and you really liked this guy, what would you do? or what should i tell my friend to do? if you say &...

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VIBRATING TONGUE RINGS


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 11:21 pm

where culd i get one? hot topic? spencers? and how do they feel? me and my boyfriend want to try it because he has a tongue ring and we are curious. is that a good idea?

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i like you, but i dont want to.


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 10:41 pm

i dont like anyone right now. but theres someone i cant get my mind off of. hes a really bad influence, and i dont know what attracts me to him. but i like himmm. only i try NOT to because hes so freakin' bad.... and i know he doesnt like me. but lately i have "liked" guys back to back because i want to get my mind away from that guy i kinda cant help myself but to like.
But these guys i turn towards arent guys i wouldnt actually like.
but since im tricking my mind into thinking that, i tend to think i like them, only i totally dont.
make sense?
what can i do to NOT like this guy, but to NOT trick my brain into liking him. and how to stop going after 2312 guys jsut to distract myself?

...

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flirting


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 10:12 pm

15 f

what are some ways i can playfully flirt with a boy ? basiclly how do should i flirt with him ? any tips would be nice =)

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Hes a jerk


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 9:05 pm

my brothers friend is Really mean to me.
what does it mean?
hes only 1 grade older btw

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Guy Problems


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 8:53 pm

f/13 so i like this guy who is my firends brother(hes a year younger than me) and he found out that i like him and told his sister( my friend) that he found out but then nothing happened between us. but when ever i go over he is always like teasing me and stuff like tipping my chair over and he dosent do that to my twin sister who also comes over when i go over. and now im confused on what i should do/ if he likes me or not.

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Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 8:51 pm

Hii,
Well since your a guyy :)

Can you answer thiss?

I was wondering if a guy liked a girll...

And he heard she liked guys that like to play hard to gett,

Would he purposely try to not talk to you as muchh?


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boy confusion..


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 8:28 pm

okay so i jus recently met this boy brad. so brad and i started talking. fliring non-stop. and hes taking me on a date real soon. he says he likes me already. hes a major babe. he says im the prettiest girl hes ever seen. always talks good things about me to my friends. but here comes the problem. rachel, his ex. shes a friggin bitch to be honest. they went out for 3 years. they broke up and got back together in feb. its anoyying how hes so stupid and goes back to her. i remember him telling me that i was changing is mind fast about him forgetting her. i honestly do not know why he likes her. she recently cheated on him. they broke up. then she does something to make him forgive her. and honestly it pisses me off. hes all i think about. i k...

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the tape...


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 7:36 pm

my boyfriend.. who i love so much. and been best friends with for 6 years but we have only been dating for about a year. hes had wayyyy more relationships than me, and with one girl he decided to make a sex tape. he keeps it. i told him i didnt like that. i dont get why he has to have it if hes not with her and he doesnt watch it. yet he brings it up all the time in jokes and stuff. so its not out of mind. im afraid if this relationship goes further he wont get rid of it. should i even want him to get rid of it? i just dont understand why he still has it. and its not like were engaged ot anything.. wev talked about it. but were not currently. if i do ask him to get rid of it when should i and what should i say?? i dont want to ruin our rela...

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Boyfriend teases bestfriend


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 5:36 pm

Im soo confused, i have been going out with this boy for about 4 months now and i really really like him. But lately things have been kind of.. weird. He is best friends with my good friend as well, so they tend to tease each other and tickle each other. I know he loves me but i dont understand why she would prevoke it, or why he would? Also, for some reason i keep thinking about me good friends brother... even though me and my boyfriend are perfect for each other in every way... Help!

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date ideas!


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 3:22 pm

this guy and i are pretty close
like pretttttty close=]
and we both like each other and always want to hang out outside of school
but theres like nothing i can think of thats fun to do except go see a movie which we have like a billion times and we cant really talk
whats something fun we can do together?? (in public, not at each others houses, and that doesnt cost too much money.

(neither of us can drive each other yet, so wed haev to meet at the place or have our parents drive us)

anything is appreciated!!!


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is he worth it?


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 2:17 pm

so i wrote adive awhile ago the slut comment about getting w/ two guys well one of them i've had a wierd relationship w/..he has hurt me in the past where he and another friend knew i liked him and they made out in front of me and really hurt me then my friend went out w/ them then they broke up and i hooked back up w/ the guy and we had to keep it a secret but i told someone and word got out then he was mad at me and we werent friends anymore then he forgave me and we got back together hooked up randomplay and i for some reason have liked him still and i dont know why b/c i know hes an ass and hes such a touchy guy always all over girls and sometimes i get his attention and try and hope he'll like give me a chance but now im wondering if h...

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Me and my best friend and her boyfriend


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 2:02 pm

Ok so me and my best friend have been REALLY REALLY close for the past 7 or 8 months now and all of a sudden she meets this guy named brandon and he's 20 he's in the navy he's in virginia. My best friend is 16. And ever since she met him she acts like all her old friends are nothing she spends 16 hours on the phone with him and at the same time she's sitting on the computer with him too. Well they fight alot and he is jelous of everything she does. He's jelous of me and Chelsea's ex and my ex's too. Her parents are building a pool and he doenst want them to because he thinks she's going to have a bunch of guys over. He gets very violent too he likes to hit things when him and chelsea fight. And he never wants her to have fun or talk to anyo...

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okay so


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 1:52 pm

Let's say you were with a guy for a lot of years. And everyone said you were one in a million and you guys would never fight and do stuff like finish each others sentences and all that stuff. But then you broke it off in a really terrible way and then 2 months later they found someone else (although they don't seem as happy with them.)

Would you say it wasn't meant to be then?

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Guy trouble please help


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 10:26 am

Well theres me and this guy and were kinda like best friends but with benefits i think. Hes a year older than me and im not quite sure if i have feelings for him, i think i might though. We have had conversations before like how he said nothing more than friends would work out right now and i asked if it ever would and he said yeah maybe. We talk every night on the phone and hang out every weekend, we have only made out though.
Im not shure quite what we are and if we will ever be more than friends & idk if i feel comfortable asking him, what should i do ?

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Mixed Signals Guys preferable


Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 7:01 am

So me and this guy have been really good friends for two years now but I don't know whether he likes me or not. He talks to me constantly online and sometimes waits for me to go online all day too but whenever we plan to hang out he ends up canceling. He compliments me a lot like saying how any guy would be lucky to have me but then he doesn't answer my phone calls most of the time and avoids seeing me in person. He use to go to my school for a year and everyone thought we were dating. He also looks at me a lot when I'm not looking and we hug too. I told him I liked him once but he said he didn't want to ruin our friendship. I'm really confused! I don't know if he likes me just as a friend or if he likes me more. I know he doesn't like dati...

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