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i like you, but i dont want to.
i dont like anyone right now. but theres someone i cant get my mind off of. hes a really bad influence, and i dont know what attracts me to him. but i like himmm. only i try NOT to because hes so freakin' bad.... and i know he doesnt like me. but lately i have "liked" guys back to back because i want to get my mind away from that guy i kinda cant help myself but to like.
But these guys i turn towards arent guys i wouldnt actually like.
but since im tricking my mind into thinking that, i tend to think i like them, only i totally dont.
make sense?
what can i do to NOT like this guy, but to NOT trick my brain into liking him. and how to stop going after 2312 guys jsut to distract myself?
ps. ive never had a boyfriend and im a 16f,
takin' it slooowww! loll
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*might as well face it your addicted to love*~Robert Palmer *sorry was singin' wink*
Okay, I cannot call the kettle black, when I was young I tended to chase after the "bad boys" myself. I think it's a stage some of us go through to find excitement. Unfortunately, the guy really liked me back and I ended up heart-broken... Fortunately, I finally figured out that the "bad guys" WERE really "bad guys" and will likely make you miserable in the end.
You should shove this guy right out of your impending love life because, as you said, he obviously doesn't have any interest in you. AND being the Goddess/Diva that you are, you shouldn't waste your time chasing a guy that won't return your affection!
It sounds to me like your rushing things- there isn't any hard and fast rule that you MUST have a boyfriend at any age! Fact is, when the right guy comes along you'll know it, and you will forget this "mean guy" in two seconds. You'll be too busy with the butterflies in your tummy and trying not to tremble or look stupid. *laugh*
Stop trying so hard, and/or worrying about it. I've found, and this is another of life's ironies: that when your NOT looking..that is always the time that the right guy finds you! *smile*
Instead of chasing romance, why not take a bit of a break and find something else to occupy your mind? I know this sounds corny, but it works..find a hobby,get a job (you'll meet lots of new people doing that!) or something of that nature..and before ya know it, the guy of your dreams will be chasing YOU down and you will go together like "peas and carrots" *grin and laugh*.
Really though, give it some thought, you really deserve to love AND be loved!
Hope this helped some!
Jasmine Moon
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