There's this one guy I know and I have had, like, the MAJOR hots for him...I know that he knows that I like him...But there's a problem. I get super nervous around guys that I like. Most of the time, I'm outgoing and bubbly, as my friends say, but like I said...It only happens when I'm around guys that I like.
I can't seem to get enough courage to talk to him or even stand by him! I need help, fast!
Does anyone have some tips that I can use to get around this obstacle and make my move?!?
xrayremixed answered Monday April 7 2008, 2:44 pm: I know exactly how you feel- you really like this guy, but everytime he looks at you or you're around him, you completely freeze up and forget everything you'd like to say to him.
You need to start by accepting that you're a fun, bubbly girl who deserves to be herself around guys. Just get out there and show him who you really are. If he already knows that you like him and he doesn't run screaming from you everytime you're around, then you're already halfway towards being with him. It's very possible that he likes you back and is too shy to go talk to you. You need to just suck it up and go over and start talking to him, because someone has to make the first move, right? Just start by talking and finding out more about him, and if you end up asking him out and he declines, then he wasn't worth your time anyway, and you can move on and find someone who deserves you.
I hope that my advice helps. [ xrayremixed's advice column | Ask xrayremixed A Question ]
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