|
Mixed Signals Guys preferable
So me and this guy have been really good friends for two years now but I don't know whether he likes me or not. He talks to me constantly online and sometimes waits for me to go online all day too but whenever we plan to hang out he ends up canceling. He compliments me a lot like saying how any guy would be lucky to have me but then he doesn't answer my phone calls most of the time and avoids seeing me in person. He use to go to my school for a year and everyone thought we were dating. He also looks at me a lot when I'm not looking and we hug too. I told him I liked him once but he said he didn't want to ruin our friendship. I'm really confused! I don't know if he likes me just as a friend or if he likes me more. I know he doesn't like dating his friends because he tried it once and she ended up hating him after hey broke up. I just really need to know what you guys think. Girl are welcome to answer to if they've ever been in this situation. Thanks! <3
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I hate to give advice that might hurt you, but either this guy does like you and is just confused, or by saying that he doesn't want to ruin your friendship, he doesn't like you enough for a relationship, or have enough faith in the two of you to think that a relationship would last. He is kind of expecting a relationship to fail, and therefore ruin your friendship. I am a girl, but I asked my boyfriend about this one, and he agrees that this boy is just either not into you enough for a relationship, or is just as confused as you are. He shouldn't base your possible relationship on his past relationships, because every relationship is different. You need to ask this boy straight up what the problem is, and either he'll realize that he has issues and want to work it out, or you should just move on and find someone who deserves to be in a relationship with you.
I hope that my advice helps.
]
Sorry that I am not a guy but I was once in this situation. Back in high school I always liked my best guy friend, he always was very outgoing and talked to a lot of girls. When I would start dateing other guys he would get very jelous of the other guy. When he would be with other girls I was the one getting jelous. We talked to each other from about 6:30 in the morning till we went to bed. We talked online on the phone and everything. We rarely hung out after school though. I think it might just be awkward for guys to hang out with their friends that are girls because people will and do get the impression that you might be more than just friends. Maybe try going out places in a big group of friends. Sense he is avoiding seeing you in person he might have feelings for you that he is trying to hide or not show or even try and forget about. Give it time something may come out of it. Like my best guy friend and I we ended up dating our junior year and now were married! We broke up after about 4 months and we didnt talk for a while but after a while we started talking again... then we started dating our senior year and we stayed together. Something may come out of it.... I dont know this probally dosent really help much but maybe it will give you a little faith. Just give it time and something may happen. I dont know how old you are either but that might have something to do with it too. In a couple months he may start to realize the feelings he has for you and maybe his feelings are mixed because he cant decide if he likes you as a girl friend type person or a best friend.
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question: iTunes
| Next Question >>>
|
|