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In love with my best friend
Posted Wednesday April 9 2008, 3:24 pm
M.17
Ive been hanging out with her for a long time and when i was younger i told her i loved her, but i rushed it. Now things are different, we hang out like all the time and have alot of fun. Im so deeply in love with her and im afraid of asking her out. Last night i had adream about asking her and she said no, i was crushed. A couple of nights ago when i was driving her home i kissed her on the cheek when she gave me a hug, i was to nervous to see how she reacted. The next day nothing happened, it was like that kiss ment nothing. I saw the jewelery box i made her in my younger years and it made me think. I want to ask her so bad but im to afraid of messing up our friendship. what do i do? plz help me!
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Jordan..
Posted Wednesday April 9 2008, 1:58 pm
so. yesterday, i went over my friends house.
and we decided to talk to my friend on vf.
and ive had a huge crush on him 4 a really long time.
honestly, im not into the whole "online relationship" thing but hes just so sweet and adorable.
anyways, we were talking and my frend nos i like him.
suddenly, he got sad and my fiend tried to cheer him up.
he said he wanted to talk to me
so yea i tried to cheer him up
and it worked
then after that i was sad
(i.d.k. when ppl r sad it makes me sad)
so shannika (my friend) started talking to him again.
she asked em if she could tell him i liked him
i sadi no and she kept asking me and i kept saying no....
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so many problems
Posted Wednesday April 9 2008, 3:35 am
i've been dating this guy... its been about 6 months and i think i love him.... but i dont know for sure... he is pretty crazy about me i think but at one point he kinda cheated on me. so im worried it will happen again. this is wat happened we took a break and then mended everything and that day it all got better he went to a party adn this chick wanted him adn was laying down completely naked on the bed downstairs. she called his name and he walked downstairs he saw her and got excited started walking towards her adn they made out then he was like oh shit.. and stopped he called me and told me everything immediately so i forgave him. but still ya know. i want to be loyal to him but i too have had a few problems... and cheated twice with m...
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My ex did want me back, but now what?
Posted Wednesday April 9 2008, 12:21 am
I have been dating a guy for five months. He is nice and all, but I have feelings for my "1st love". We were together for eight months off and on, until I finally broke it off. I just couldn't take it anymore. He was lying and cheating. For five months now I have been in this nice, safe relationship and my ex has been texting me and asking me to break up with my bf and go back out with him. First I thought it was just a joke, but a couple weeks ago I was out of town and he text me and called me and apologized for all the things that went wrong when we were together. He told me that he just knew he was going to marry me one day and that he loved me more than anything in the world. He had never been so honest with me before....
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soulmates
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 11:04 pm
i think i may have found "the one" but how can i be sure?
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song title?
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 10:58 pm
all i know about the lyrics is..
'shorty is a killa' and it's a girl singing it, and it's real popish and danceable. thankyou.
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kind of disturbing
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 10:56 pm
so i always hear my mom have sex...shes really loud. it really grosses me out
the sounds she makes are really annoying, and when i have sex, i really dont want to sound like her bc id be embarrased of the noises coming out
is that normal to sound weird? or is it just her?
and what do guys think when a girl is really loud
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ah im confused
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 10:35 pm
ok so me and this one guy have known each other for about four years. up until the beginning of this month we had been talking every single fday pretty much. we had a good friendship going on.
he has told me plenty of times that he wants to take the relationship up a step, but i tell him i dont want that.
lately we have been fighting a lot and bascially he has told me he wants nothing to do with me anymore. everytime i texted him or called him he is very short worded with me. he even said that i was pretty much gone from his memory.
the thing is, about 2-3 times a week he will randomly text me.
i dont know what to think of it, bc he said he wants nothing to do with me, but then he turns around and starts talking...
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Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 10:30 pm
ive never been in a relationship. i really dont count 2 weeks with a guy anything serious..and thats pretty much all ive had in my life. ive had some guys want to go out with me and there was this one in particular saying he would do anything and everything for me..yet i always seem to turn them down.
i dont know if its because im scared to be in a committed relationship, or what.
sometimes i think to myself that if it was really ment to happen, then somehow i would end up being with them..and since im always alone, i just havent found the right guy yet.
is that stupid to think?
since i can remember, i used to always write in my journal and pray to find that one guy who really loves me..but nineteen years later, ...
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Abusive?
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 9:55 pm
Okay so I have a boyfriend who recently hit his mom..Okay more like bruised it up.. and he might be heading for boot camp this summer. and he threw a plazma Big screen tv at his 12 yr, brother.
he says his brother was throwing a chair at him though. few months ago he got sent to his dads cause he did somehting wrong then him and his dad got in a fist fight.. he says he "Beat the s*** out of him" which isnt all that good sense he got searched, hand cuffed and taken down to the police station.. should i be worried? hes not abbusive right? just a temper?
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he makes me think about him
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 9:42 pm
i'm tryin to get over my first and im doing a very good job but he can do the the darnest things like give me this humgous hug or like yesterday tell me he has to talk to me about something but then in school today he didint say anything about what he wanted to tell me face to face
help me on trying to keep him off my mind some ideas maybe
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How to win the boy.
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 9:18 pm
Okay, so there is this boy named Stephen. He's a total goof, but there is something about him that makes me like him so much. This is the first boy I've liked since my long-term ex boyfriend dumped me one year ago, so this is relatively new again. Stephen and I are deffinetly friends, not best friends, but friends! He has so many girl-bestfriends though, and he always flirts with them. I'm not really jealous because I really don't think that he likes any of them. Stephen and I talk sometimes and flirt sometimes too. We hug occationally, but this is no different then what he does with other girls. I need to make my flirting different. I want this boy so bad. What do I do? I need advice!!!
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how to know if my husband still loves me
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 8:43 pm
Me and my husband have been together for 2yrs and its gotten to the point that he doesn't want to take me out anymore and its becoming a real bore he just wants to sit around and play poker and I'm sick of it what do I do. I'm 18 and he's 23
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Cheating?
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 8:04 pm
My boyfriend and i have not been dating for a very long time only about 2 months. i am not sure how to tell or not but i think he might be cheating on me. I know he talks to other girls and texts and calls them and stuff but i am fine with that i am not the jelious type. but sometimes i will be holding his phone and i will just pretend to read his texts and he will freak out! i want to find out what he is hiding on his phone. i am not trying ot be nosey but him freaking out like he does makes me nervious... Any advice about either what to say to him or how to find out if he is or not?
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My parents are strict especialy about boys.
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 7:45 pm
Hello. I am a first time user so i don't know exactly what to say. first i will expalin my problem. I am in highschool and i know dating isnt the biggest worry for me but its fun and something i would like to start doing. My parents disagree with me. They think i am to young to date. I have a boyfriend secretly right now. I dont know what to do. He says he is ok with my situation because he knows how my parents are. (he has never met them only heard stories). Can you help me either try to reason with my parents or give me advice to atleast get my parents to let me HANG OUT with guys (yea i am not even alowed to hang out with a guy this advice might be a toughy)
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What's going on?
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 6:56 pm
When my boyfriend and I first started dating he always made time for me. He'd move his plans around, always make the most of our time, focus on me. When he answered his phone he'd always tell his friends that he was with me.
Now 6 months later--it's not like that anymore... He plays video games when we're together, when he answers his phone he says he isn't doing anything when asked and he doesn't want to move any plans around. I'm not saying I want him to bail on his friends for me but things like working out. He works out at completely random times and when we first stated dating, he'd push it back or move it forward so he could see me. Now if he decides he want to work out and I call him, he wont do that. And whats with t...
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fighting
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 6:53 pm
me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now. i love him to death. but we fight so much. i hate it. i feel like its tearing us apart. mostly we fight over, no trust, and how he doesnt care, i know he does but iidk.and i get so mad so fast. how do i stop getting mad over stupid stuff. how do we make our relationship better?
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not right now
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 5:17 pm
so i like this guy and this guy likes me. we've been talking for a couple months and finally expressed our feelings over the weekend. i was thrilled. we planned a date and when i called him to confirm times and such the next day he said that he can't be in a relationship right now. i know he still likes me but what does it mean that he can't be in a relationship right now? what are reasons that a guy would say that?
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made out with best friend
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 5:12 pm
Im a girl in grade 12 and there is this one boy i've liked since grade 9. Me and him have been best friends since ive met him and we both used to like each other at one point. Me and him are very close to the point where we talk for hours on the fone, school and msn every day. He always used to make sexual jokes with me and we told each other last year that we used to like each other. Meanwhile, his close guy friend also liked me. Me and his friend started going out in june last year. Since then, me n my best friend continue to talk a lot but never in front of my bf. a couple weeks ago, me n my best friend went on a school trip to new york and on the bus ride home which was from 7 pm to 7 am, we made out. Me and my bf had broken up a month ...
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Omg im confused
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 4:56 pm
Okay well there is this boy named Luan and i really like him,He iss soooo sexy and his smile is the best thing in the world,but then again there is this boy named lany that likes me alot but wont tell me so like im confused,I like lany i used to like be in love with him but he was a jerk to me so i juss forgot about him, but now lany likes me but dont really like him as much as I did,soo what do i do??
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