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made out with best friend
Im a girl in grade 12 and there is this one boy i've liked since grade 9. Me and him have been best friends since ive met him and we both used to like each other at one point. Me and him are very close to the point where we talk for hours on the fone, school and msn every day. He always used to make sexual jokes with me and we told each other last year that we used to like each other. Meanwhile, his close guy friend also liked me. Me and his friend started going out in june last year. Since then, me n my best friend continue to talk a lot but never in front of my bf. a couple weeks ago, me n my best friend went on a school trip to new york and on the bus ride home which was from 7 pm to 7 am, we made out. Me and my bf had broken up a month ago. It wasnt just a simple kiss, we kissed a lot fo times and when i woke up the next moring he was holding my hand .This is the firts time ivee gotten physical with him in my whoel life. When my bf, who still likes me, tried to beat him up, my best friend lied and said i made the move and that he never even liked me. I was mad at him for a week for lying but i realized its not worth runing a 4 yr friendship over.Was this just to save his butt and not ruin his reputation with his friend or is it the truth? Does my best friend like me but is lying to his friends? Or did he just use me physically?
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well. this is a bit of a pickle, huh?
well, if he didnt like you he wouldnt have made out with you and held your hand. idk about you, but i dont just make out with ANYONE. only someone i really care about.
he probably said that to his friend to save his ass. and maybe his friendship. but since you and your ex werent going out at the time, he shouldnt care. girl rules dont apply to boys. they can go out with eachothers exes all they want.
this friend of yours sounds like a good guy. idk him, but i think he wouldnt use his best friend like that.
i really hope you two work it out. and i hope your ex gets an ass whooping from your current bf (or half bf?? whatever) he sounds like a prick.
take care! :)
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Well, I'm guessing the only way to know for sure is by talking to him. All the reasons you mentioned could be true or none at all.
There are a couple things you should consider doing:
1) Tell your ex boyfriend to back off. Remind him that you are no longer together and it is none of his business who you are kissing.
2) Tell your best friend that you are hurt he lied. Ask him why he kissed you if it didn't mean anything. Ask him how he feels once and for all.
3) BUT before you do that, how do YOU feel? You never really said who you wanted to be with or if you wanted a boyfriend (at least I didn't see any hints). If you are interested in taking your friendship to the next level, this situation needs to be talked out. If you are not interested in a relationship from there, you should talk to your friend about keeping things friendly and not kissing anymore.
Good luck!
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