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not right now
so i like this guy and this guy likes me. we've been talking for a couple months and finally expressed our feelings over the weekend. i was thrilled. we planned a date and when i called him to confirm times and such the next day he said that he can't be in a relationship right now. i know he still likes me but what does it mean that he can't be in a relationship right now? what are reasons that a guy would say that?
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he might not be sure of his feelings right now, ask him to explain himself...wait for him to come to you, because it sounded like he second guessed himself after he told you he liked u...talk to him then take a step back, have him take the initiative
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He could be nervous about getting into a new relationship and getting involved with someone. Or he may just not be ready for a relationship at this time or not want to ruin your friendship.
It could be a number of things. I suggest talking to him about it. Let him know where you stand and that you want to know where he does too.
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I agree with Michelle. There are way too many reason why he could have said this and no point in listing them all. Just be straight with him. Ask him what changed in the last couple of days to make him not want to go out, not want to give it a shot. Don't worry about asking him..just know that you DESERVE the answer to that question. You don't want to waste time with someone that doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. Good luck dear!
<3 Leslie
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I think you honestly just need to ask him what he means by he can't be in a relationship? When just a day or so ago he could be.
(If the two of you were open enough to try and start one why not be open about not starting one?)
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