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How do I know?


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 9:03 pm

i met someone this school year. he sits in next to me in one of my classes. hes so fun and we talk a lot. during class, after class. we wave in the hall and say hi. he's always got something to say even if it's random and has nothing to do with anything. hes always the one to say hi to me first. we laugh and joke and touch sometimes, in like a joking manner.he seems to flirt with me, I mean thats how it comes off at lease. I don't know if he's into me tho. Ahg hes such a great guy.
I asked a previous question-like if i should tell him I like him or not. and I decided best not to do much of anything because he has a girlfriend. But is there a way to know if he likes me? He never talks of his girlfriend around me..idk he seems into ev...

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makeout vs. french


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 7:27 pm

whats the difference?!

also, tips for either PLEASEE!

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how do i work things out with him knowing my feelings....


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 7:27 pm

hey well me and my bestest friend just got out of a disagreement and everything is great!! well we kinda dated be4... he is soo sweet to me. but he lives far away and my feelings are just as strong. he just got out of a bad relationship and he is dealing with it... he still has some feelings for her and well you see...she kinda played him in a way...but i care alot about him... we have helped eachother through everything....he has thought about us getting back together but he isnt sure..its not something we can just talk about..knowing that we both know he has feelings for someone else to that he isnt completely over...but is trying to be....he calls me cutie,sweetie,babe,baby(mostly), he says i make him laugh, that i am always open minded ...

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Does he or not!


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 7:23 pm

So there is this guy lets name him bob okay lol!
And I have liked him forever and for a long time i thought he liked me back! We would talk everyday if only for a moment but now he hasnt talked to me in like a month!!! But during this week i have seen him looking at me i just wanna know if he likes me!!!!!

-Candy

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GRADUATION GIFT!!!!


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 1:17 pm

I have a girlfriend that i have been with about 3 years who i'm moving in with in Augest. She's Graduating in June and i need some ideas on what's a good "Graduation Gift" for the one you love?

Thanks

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Boyfriend and his mom and me drama! please help im deseprate


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 10:04 am

Ok well ive been dating this guy for a week and a 2 days. Hes my bestfriends cousin. were both 13. Well continuing with the story me and him clicked immediatly. We both talked so much on the phone. Both of our parents didn't know. I know mine wouldn't mind. Well his were different.
He has a sister. So the sister me and him one day made up a plan, the plan was everytime i called his phone ( house phone he doesnt have a cell phone yet), and if the mom picked up i would ask to talk to his sister, then his sister would give him the phone to talk to me. So this went good for about 6 days or so. Well my friend was so happy i was dating her cousin, and her cousin was dating her friend she made a cute website about us it had seprate pictures...

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i am depressed


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 9:28 am

it seems to me like there is this universal standard look of beauty..... long flowy hair (even beyoncay, hale bare, maraiah carey spend hours turning it into something Caucasians and Latinas have) what ever happened to curly hair? even curls the curls the have are fake!
not that i am saying all those women are ugly or anything but if thats the standard then heck i'm way out of the picture....... and its making me feel terrible. i am not fat or anything, my face is clear no acne... its just that my nose isn't a ski slope, my hair is super curly and my eyes are pit black (i know that is anatomically not possible but it is the last shade of brown before black!) i'm not tall (only 5'4) and i only fit into a size 8 (sometimes!).........<...

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coping methods


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 1:27 am

why do a lot guys deal with their problems by partying, sleeping with lots of girls and doing drugs?

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does he like me or not .


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 1:15 am

okay so heres the story (please be eager to listen :))

3 weeks ago i met 2 people theyre bestfriends lets call them apple and banana. apple likes me . and he thinks he has a chance with me because he kinda thinks i like him too (i kind of a tease but i try not to but i end up looking like one even if idont do it on purpose). but i like banana. his friend .

whenever i talk in person with apple .. banana interrupts and (pops up) in the conversation but he doesnt talk with me. HE TALKS WITH BANANA. he goes like:

"Hey banana! remember when.....?" Things like that

i dont know if he's trying to catch my attention or he dusnt wanna be ignored in front of me and apple or he just ...

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Emotionally numb confession


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 12:02 am



Thank you. I have a friend,turned BF
( both over 40 here) he is different
from anyone,very passive,evasive,sweet
gentle,non confronting,and treats me
very much the same.not 1 fight ( yep)
he is very open,loving,but has bad
communication..or none really.

My issue is,he confesses these things like
I NEED 2 SEE YOU MORE..but then 3 weeks pass..
( he works & travels 80 hr week)

next confession: he says he feels numb( from working) building business...

I remain horny,lonely..never had that problem
but he is loyal,commitment,and faithful!!

so..am I just a spoiled girl?
or am I being unfair to myself?



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taking it to the next level emotionally


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 11:41 pm

Ok
so I'm a sophmore in high school and my boyfriend iss a junior,
we started talking for atleast 3weeks and decided to go out after and i really like him i've never felt like this before but i also feel like something is missing. I've only been going out with him for about 1.5 weeks and maybe we rushed it a little because we talk on the phone comfortably but sometimes in person it gets a little awkward. Also is it messed up to flirt with a friend of yours and hug him (it doesn't mean anything) but he is the jealous type.

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best friend and old crush.


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 9:35 pm

so all through elemtry school into middle school i had this crush on a kid, lets call him mike. and i could never ever tell him i liked him, because my best friend, lets call this one jay, adored him. and was upsessed with him. so i never told anyone i liked him. 7th grade he got sent to rehab, and i kinda forgot about him. now, 3 years later, he is back. and i hung out with him, and my new best friend, lets call her shelly. well i started liking him. and then he tells me that he thinks shelly is hot. and then he also told our friend ron and ron told shelly. and shelly started liking him. though she knows i like him. and yesterday they ran away from me and our other friends and dissappeared for 3 hours... and today i walked in on them hook...

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prom problem


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 8:40 pm

prom is on saturday. i am going with my boyfriend. the plan after prom was to go back to my friends house and everyone in our group would sleep over. last night i told my boyfriend the plans and he was like ok thats fine. then a couple seconds later he was like "actually, im going to jake's house after prom we can get alcohol and ride around and stuff". i didn't really feel like arguing so i just said alright. i told my best friend about it today and she was mad and texted him saying "good job youre ditching your girlfriend to get drunk". normally i could care less if he wants to go out with his friends and get drunk or whatever. but its prom night, the only night we have an excuse to sleep in the same house together hah...

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boyfrienddd


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 8:14 pm

okay so i have a boyfriend that i like alottt and he claims to like me too, he even tells me he loves me alot and says really sweet things. Well every night we talk alot, and then at school we see eachother for like 4 minutes between sum classes and we hardly talk? he hugs me and stuff and kisses me but its hardly any conversation at all. he talks to his friends and i kinda just stand there so i have my friend wait with me and i talk to her because i dont wanna look stupid just standing there. I mean we do talk but its just like whatever nothing special. Well today she informed me that she seen him with his arms around some girl walking her to class, should i be worried about that? i mean i dont think he'd be cheating if he was hugging me a...

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Asking her out.


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 7:48 pm

14/M

I hang out with this girl alot. We go to the mall with other people very often, and we also go to movies. I like her, and I want to ask her out, but I have absolutely no clue when/how. I think she likes me but I'm not totally sure. I'm also quite positive she'd say yes, but thats not my main concern; its actually asking the question.

Any advice?

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For guys Only [ relationship ]


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 7:30 pm

There are a cOuple of answers i wanna ask , but please [ guys reply Only].

- What makes a guy " want " a girl , like say your in a relationship but what would make you just " lust " or want a girl bad.

- How come guys dont care as much as girls do

- & why do yall not like to express yalls feelings like we do?

Please answer those 3 questions , thanks :)


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Its about a girl that I love with all my heart and soul.


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 7:24 pm

I am deeply in love with a girl. She happens to be my class mate nd we are pretty close friends. I told her how i felt cos i couldnt keep it inside any longer and I thought it was best to tell her. Well she doesnt love me the way i love her. She says that I am a great guy and all. She just wants to be my friend for now (thats what she said exactly).So I asked her if anything could happen between us in the future (A pretty stupid move i think) and she said probably not. That hurt a lot and it still does. The problem is that I cant stop loving her. What am i supposed to do? Does anyone think I stand a chance.

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i want to be sexier


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 7:09 pm

my bf has the most respect for me and hes really sweet. i just don't think he thinks im sexy. other "sexy" girls grab his attention easily. is there any way i can do the same and make him only pay attention to me? i just want him to think "wow ive never seen her like that before" and think of me in a sexy way. without losing the respect of course.

i need help and ideas!!!
p.s. im seeing him this weekend.

f/16

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idk what to do, please help.


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 6:41 pm

okay so i have a boyfriend who really loves me and i was in love with him but im more in love with his personality than looks. but i know you shouldn't go by looks in a relationship but it helps. we've been going out for 6 months and i recently became friends with this guy i like knew about before i was going out with my boyfriend and hes extremely attractive. he even likes me and ive hung out with him a few times and we have a lot of fun. i know ive been going out with my boyfriend and i would never cheat on him because im not like that but i feel like i want to be able to like flirt with people and explore, but i feel like im not able to with a boyfriend. Like sometimes i love having a boyfriend and sometimes i feel like i wish i didn't h...

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help me please


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 6:14 pm

okay so maybe i am looking too much into this one. But a long time ago i told this guy i liked him and i pretty much scared him off and he told me he was gay (such a lie). And now like i notice he will look at me when before he wanted nothing to do with me. And now he will actually watch me. I sort of get weirded out because he never has wanted anything, and i mean ANYTHING to do with me. he avoided me. And like this morning he talked to me and was like "how are you feeling about barnbash" and my friend was like "its a barn" and i said "very very great very great" and he was looking at me...

so what could come of this?? i mean seriously isnt it a little weird that he is doing all of this now?? ma...

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