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Asking her out.
14/M
I hang out with this girl alot. We go to the mall with other people very often, and we also go to movies. I like her, and I want to ask her out, but I have absolutely no clue when/how. I think she likes me but I'm not totally sure. I'm also quite positive she'd say yes, but thats not my main concern; its actually asking the question.
Any advice?
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Well... first of all, whatever you do make sure you DON'T ask her out on the phone OR on myspace. It's tacky and... a huge turn off. We're likelier to say no if you can't eevn ask us out in person.
Second... don't say "do you want to GET with me?" Also tacky and even if we say yes we'll secretly be unhappy with how you asked. Say "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" It's sweeter and more respectful.
When... well you should do it when you two are alone. That way it will be more intimate and she won't have to worry about everyone looking at her to see wha she's going to say. Also, you won't have to worry about it :-P
How... hmm, well that depends on you. It would be very swet if you could do it smewhere symbolic. Like the place where you first mer or her favorite restaurant or something. But simplicity is sweet too, like when you can wal her home and ask her on her porch... you know.... cute ^_^ Oh ym god, tiw ould be perfect if it were raining... but then you'd probably not be walking, lol.
Also, it would be reeeally sweet if you gave her a rose!
I hope I was helpful.
Good luck! I hope she says yes :-)
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ok well i see this very often as well in my advice commitiee so well on the first note i agree with the other advice a columist has given you but for more advice i would take a shot you know just watch the sign's when you too are together most of the time if you watch them and see them she does like you, well ok a few sign's are when she looks at you she tens to kinda maybe gigle and look off some where or maybe she just looks off with a little smile on the end of her face, there ius after yall are done atalking and yall have to go so she walks away and she looks back at you, Hey ill tell you this there's really two choices for you to choose on your own there is you can just get the nerve upand just ask her and if she does she does or you can show her you like her bit by bit what i mean is you need to go one on one to the movies with her or dinner and slowy ask her flirting whille you do it and ask her if she likes anbody at this point and if she say yes you have a good chance that it might be you but after you do that just keep talking to her and hinting to her that you like her but at the end you really just need to say will you go out with me and all she can say is no but but its rare so dont worry and im telling if you dont ask her she probaly going to not think about it anymore most of the time a girl is waiting on you to ask her cause they are afraid of denial and so they wait for you to ask and just talk to her and see if she feels the same way about you that you do about her.
Hey but sinbce yall are somuch best friends dont rush it and alot of the time when friends go out its hard cause if you have known someone for a while you think of them as family and at the end it will hurtboth of you but thats why yall talk about before yall start goping bnut alot of the other times best friends turn out to be the greatest of realtionship starter's.
So i hope this help it usally does but if you need anything else with advice and all your welcome to ask me an anything ok
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Bake her a cupcake and put a piece of paper inside saying "Will you be my girlfriend?"
Write her a poem saying everything you like about her and ask her to be your girlfriend at the end of it.
Make her a CD with some cool songs on it, and for the last track, make a recording of yourself saying how amazing you think she is and that you want her to be your girlfriend.
You could go all out, or keep it simple. Like take her out to dinner and ask her then. You know her better than the rest of us do. What would she like?
Whichever scenario you use, make sure it is in private so people won't tease her about it or anything (not saying that they would, but stuff like that is personal).
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there are many things you can do like for example maybe ask her if she wants to go just the 2 of you and no one else.or if you wanna find out if she likes you first then maybe you could write her a note and give her it and tell her to write back.
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