okay so i have a boyfriend that i like alottt and he claims to like me too, he even tells me he loves me alot and says really sweet things. Well every night we talk alot, and then at school we see eachother for like 4 minutes between sum classes and we hardly talk? he hugs me and stuff and kisses me but its hardly any conversation at all. he talks to his friends and i kinda just stand there so i have my friend wait with me and i talk to her because i dont wanna look stupid just standing there. I mean we do talk but its just like whatever nothing special. Well today she informed me that she seen him with his arms around some girl walking her to class, should i be worried about that? i mean i dont think he'd be cheating if he was hugging me and kissing me and stuff out in the open. i'm not really sure what do you guys think about all of this?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Romance92 answered Thursday April 24 2008, 11:17 am: Yes well see i see alot of this going on everywere there's different way to deal with this kinda situation well first you need to talk to him about it, sit him down and ask him if he is and just say you were worried cause someone seen him walking to class with another girl then he should anwser you willing andnot have to be forced and explain to him that for a relationship to work it takes two and both to tell the truth to eachother, Anyway on the other hand even if you think its wrong for him to put his arm around some one else he might think like shes just a friend and there nothiong wrong with it as long as she isnt holding on to him tight and kissing or what ever but they just might be long best friends and there like brother and sister but to make sure you need to look in on it and just express the way you feel about it to him, and really its rare but on the other its not for friends to get jealous over eachother because you got him before she did so they try to break the couple up by saying things to get them you know edgey about eachother, but just take alittle bit of time and ask your self what your going to do and read read this over and try to understand it if its complicated my comp. is alittle messed up.
loverocks answered Thursday April 24 2008, 11:15 am: First thing, DON'T confront him yet. Because he will only tell you what you want to hear. Whether its the truth or not.
To me its a little weird that he isnt around you and his friends at the same time. I would keep an eye on him when I could and go from there. That way you see things for yourself.
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