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Its about a girl that I love with all my heart and soul.
I am deeply in love with a girl. She happens to be my class mate nd we are pretty close friends. I told her how i felt cos i couldnt keep it inside any longer and I thought it was best to tell her. Well she doesnt love me the way i love her. She says that I am a great guy and all. She just wants to be my friend for now (thats what she said exactly).So I asked her if anything could happen between us in the future (A pretty stupid move i think) and she said probably not. That hurt a lot and it still does. The problem is that I cant stop loving her. What am i supposed to do? Does anyone think I stand a chance.
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you always stand a chance. I am very sorry for the way things occured I had a similar experiance not to long ago.
The only thing you can do right now is to leave her alone. She will see what exactly she wants (maybe you maybe not). If it was meant to be it will happen. For now just try not to let it bother you. I am not going to tell you to get over her because I know it is not that easy. If you want to keep your relationship that you have with her now you need to fake it! I know it sucks but hopefully soon it will become easier.
I really hope things work out...I know they will!
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It is very difficult to fall out of love with someone, sometimes near impossible. Usually time is one of the only things that helps. Friends are also great, talking to them about it, and going out with them. Do all things that you can do to think of to get her out of your head. I am very sorry this happened to you, rejection is one of the worst pains in the world.
Hope I Helped.
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Love it a very painful thing sometimes. Sometimes the ones we love are not the ones who love us. I understand that you are experiencing a very rough time in life right now, but you can't force someone into loving you. If she said that she does not and does not see anything happening in the future then you need to move on. I know it is going to be very difficult, but it has to be done. There is someone out there for everyone. Actually there are more than one, but one will come around sooner or later. My advice is to try to move on and let love find you because if you are searching for it, you will never find it. I hope I helped and I am sorry that things did not work out for you and this girl, it takes a lot of nerve to go up to somebody and tell them your feelings. And look at the bright side of things at least you are able to remain friends with her. keep your head up.
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Honey,
I think you move on. Even if there is a way to make her like you, you dont want her liking you just because you talked her into it.
If you did, one day shes going to wake up and realize she only liked you because you made her. Then, youll be even more heartbroken than if you just distanced yourself from her now.
Best of luck.
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