okay so maybe i am looking too much into this one. But a long time ago i told this guy i liked him and i pretty much scared him off and he told me he was gay (such a lie). And now like i notice he will look at me when before he wanted nothing to do with me. And now he will actually watch me. I sort of get weirded out because he never has wanted anything, and i mean ANYTHING to do with me. he avoided me. And like this morning he talked to me and was like "how are you feeling about barnbash" and my friend was like "its a barn" and i said "very very great very great" and he was looking at me...
so what could come of this?? i mean seriously isnt it a little weird that he is doing all of this now?? maybe i am looking too much into it. I dont know what do you think??
I think it is just the case that he's begun to have feelings towards you and is showing them to you. If you think that a realtionship could work with him, then go out with him.
ellegirl606 answered Wednesday April 23 2008, 6:44 pm: Does he look at you like he's interested? Like he has a crush on you? You make is seem a little creepy..
Well, I guarantee you that he's changed his mind because something about you has changed.. something that is attracting him.
1) Maybe he heard something about you.
It could be good OR bad. Like he's heard good things about you and he's re-evaluating whether or not he should try to get with you, or maybe he's found that you have things in common. However, he could have heard some bad gossip about you and wants to know for himself. People are weird like that. It's kind of like how people are addicted to tabloids; it's always BAD gossip, but people love to read about it.
2) Did you change, lookswise? Like your hair, makeup, the way you dress? You said you liked him a long time ago, so I'm sure you've changed and look different since then.
I have a really strong reason that it's the second one. You probably got really pretty since then and now he wants a piece of you. haha but I really think that's why. He regrets ignoring you before so now he's keeps trying to talk to you because he thinks your hot. I swear!
See what your friends think. Other people can really tell if another guy's digging you. Other people are better judges at that.. it's harder to tell when you are the person. So ask your friends, or have them ask his friends.
This has happened to me a lot.. Guys would never look at me, but in high school I got really hot and they damn sure regretted it lol. It happens..
schwartz answered Wednesday April 23 2008, 6:23 pm: I'm sorry, I don't know what barnbash is, but it is pretty weird that he seems to be very interested in you so suddenly when before he wanted absolutely nothing to do with you. Either he matured and sees how wonderful you are, or he's just messing with your head. Give him time, and see if he's interested, or being a jerk. Keep me updated. [ schwartz's advice column | Ask schwartz A Question ]
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