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Does he really like me or what?


Posted Saturday May 24 2008, 1:01 am

Ive liked my friend for a while now, he lives in England, while I'm here in america. He told me about a month ago that he has truely loved me for a while now and how he'd love it if we were together. When I bring up that we should date he says no, but he stays single for me. I know long distance realtionships dont usually work well but he comes here for vacations, and might move here soon with his uncle. How do I tell him I'm really serious about this and i think we should date?

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boys


Posted Saturday May 24 2008, 12:47 am

boys again, the most common confusing topic of all. anyways. so my friend has a friend thats really cute. and i want to talk to him and see if things will work out, but i have a few big problems. number one, i am PAINFULLY shy when it comes to guys that i find attractive. number two, he's a senior, and he gets out of school in two weeks. number three, he's always stoned at school when i see him. i think thats it. on the plus side, i pretty much have all summer because my friend&i already talked it over and we're gonna hang out a lot over summer hopefully. so here comes the most confusing part. i'll tell my friend (who is a guy) about the guy i think is cute. like i'll just be like aw hes cute. and stuff like that at random. and then he ...

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help me!


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 8:57 pm

hi i'm 14 years old and i like a boy in 10 grade.. he is so cute! but i'm scared to talk to him. he always smiles at me when he passes by me and also he nods at me in the hall. well it's not like he doesn't know who i am! he knows i'm the girl with a crazy grandma who ives up the street from him and who grandma verbally abuses her in dutch. but otherwise that i don't know how to talk to him or formally introduce myself!!!!!
HELP!

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GUY (or girls 2) why???


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 8:55 pm

why do i never get asked out?

im not bragging or anythng, but whenever i go out guys always stare at me or smile at me or stuff like that, but they never approach me or talk to me except on rare occasion.


why is this?

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UH its a longgg story.


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 8:52 pm

Im in 7th grade and 13 yrs old. My little group of friends is, 'bri', 'jay', 'cody', 'AJ', and 'Vance'. My best friend is bri. She is leaving at the end of the year and so i will just hang out with all the other guys in my group. THE PROBLEMOOOO: I like jay. I'm pretty positive jay likes me. i think he sorta thinks i like him, but he is just afraid to ask me out. How do i encourage jay to ask me out? Please dont dont say like try to hint himmm. ive tried that , ireally just want him to ask me out. should i tell? WHAT DO I DO?

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what does my ex bf want from me?


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 8:30 pm

17/f and he's 17/m. i broke up with my first bf cause i really felt nothing for the 4 months we've dated. it was mostly lust. i felt no love. it was more of a status thing. i did like him though. thus, i didnt feel bad when i broke it off.
well, first, he acted all cool like..whatever, man. i could get 10 chicks better than you in a day. so i'm like..ehh who cares..?
and so now...he's beginning to act like a begging dog. he stares at me with these puppy eyes..and gives me looks and weird gestures..and when he hugs me..he hugs me unusually tight and touches me like when we were in a relationship...its not a friendly hug. which is exactly what we are right now. friends. yet he doesnt understand this...
well, today..he t...

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Umm......help!


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 7:23 pm

Here's the deal. I have this HUGE crush on my best friend's brother, but he has a gf. But not only that, all my friends are telling me not to go towards him 'cause he'll break my heart. I don't know if I should believe them or not. He's been really nice to me, but I don't know if he is flirting with me or not. I am not very experienced in this category. Someone please help!

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So Confused!!!!!!


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 6:06 pm

Okay


I have this guy friend I really like! We have so much in common and we get along great but I told him I am currently in a relationship that I am trying to get out of. I just wanted to be friends for now and maybe in the future we could possibly become more but he calls me everyday at least 10 times maybe more! and he is extremely pushy..trying to get me to say "I love you" by saying "I know you love me!" "You know you want to say it" etc.. and I feel highly uncomfortable and I've told him before but he seems to keep on pressuring me and I don't want to block his number or tell him to go away because I could be missing out on something for the future and he is VERY Stubborn and he c...

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A guy is interested in me but i have this nagging guilt


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 5:20 pm

Well ya see i got outta a really serious relationship a month or so ago. I felt really betrayed becuase it was my first and he promised me he loved me and then he just dumped me after almost a year. the thought of love makes me gag because all i feel is its just fake. I've been really having a hard time even though i know my ex doesn't really care about me anymore. One of my friends, who is a guy, asked me to go with him to the movies. He's really a flirt with a lot of girls so i completely expected him to grab me when i sat down and like practically put me in his lap but it didn't really bother me since i knew we were just friends and he pulls this with all types of girls. The only problem was every few minutes or so he would put his face ...

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Am I a tease?!


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 3:10 pm

19/f

So a lot of people that know me think that I'm a player or a tease, but they really don't know what I'm going through. My problem is, is that whenever things are going good with the guy I'm dating, I seem to always find something wrong with them that really annoys me and eventually I stop talking to them. Then I just move on to a different guy and the same thing happens. . I don't know what's wrong with me?!?

I did get out of a relationship, but that was like 7 months ago. My ex has already moved on and starting dating other girls. Things didn't end very well with him and me, we fought a lot and the situation was just bad. Long story short I still had feelings for him but he couldn't stand the fighting. ...

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she's still not over him


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 2:46 pm

my question is how do you get her to be over him and she want's a realtion ship with me

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15/f


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 2:38 pm

My friend Amy and I are in the 9th grade. We went to the same elementary school together but we did NOT go to the same middle school or high school, so we have grown a bit distant. Amy has a huge crush on this guy Ben, who went to elementary school with us. Amy and Ben also went to the same middle school together.


Amy is confident that Ben likes her and she wants to ask him out. However, I talked to a few of my other friends from my elementary school and apparently, everyone knows that Amy likes Ben, but Ben doesn't like her because he finds her personality to be annoying.

But Amy doesn't really understand the way other people see her---she thinks she's popular even though she's not.

<...

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The ex has returned. With mixed signals.


Posted Friday May 23 2008, 4:00 am

okay, so me and my ex (I am 14/ f and he is 13/m) broke up about 2 months ago.
About two weeks ago, i called him to just see how he was, and we ended up talking.
recently, he keeps telling me tht he misses me soooo much and he misses talking to me everyday
and he misses hugging me because my hugs are different then everyone elses and that nothing makes him feel better.
On the phone, we were remincing about old times like when we were laying on his trampoline and looking at the stars or when i fell asleep on him at my house and "how cute i looked"
and he kept saying "wow that was so much funn"
and it was him bringing up these times too not just me.
I also kept asking hi...

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My guy friend that i like


Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 11:05 pm

My friend chris asked me out by a note last year in like february of 10th grade and now im ending 11th and i never responded and i feel really stupid because i really like him and i did then too i think but i dont know why i never responded and he liked me a lot and i have no clue if he still likes me and we never see each other any more and i want to write a note to him and tell him everything and try to give it to him if i see him but im not too sure if i should. he would always tickle me and make me laugh and the day that he found out that i read the naot he came up to me and we hugged and it was really swett but i just dont know what to do! does anyone have any advice that i could do? because i really like him and would really like anot...

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wut to do...


Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 10:36 pm

what do you do when you're with a guy that you liked for a long time and were so much fun together but when you started going out everything went down hill. nowadays after only 4ish months there's just as many bad times as good, if not more. when we're good, we're great. but when we're bad, it sucks arse. like ridiculous. what do you think, does the good cancel out for the bad?

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About a pulled appart love.


Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 8:03 pm

My name is Sarah, im 13. I don't know if what i am doing is right, here it goes;
I really like this guy, it's a feeling i can't explain. There one problem, he lives in New York, and he started this band that sorta got into a TV show and now he's all famous. But.. we never actually met in person. But i don't know what to do, because i have lots of confedance in meeting him someday but maybe.. im just falling in love with another celeb?..
Please help.
Sarah

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This guy i like--I'm15f


Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 7:59 pm

He's really nice and smart, but kind of quiet at times. He has a fun personality though and I guess most girls would not consider him "hot" but I like him for who he is. I want someone who I can relate to in a non superficial way, and someone who will help me grow as a person, and hopefully I can do the same for him. The thing is I only see him in one class and he probably does not suspect that I like him. I try to compliment him when I can and talk to him more, but I don't sit next to him so it's kind of hard to. And I don't hang out with him during lunch or outside of school. Basically I need some kind of a way to give him a hint before summer break. I won't see him all summer, so I want to plant some kind of seed in his mind th...

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No Trust :(


Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 6:49 pm

Well couple of weeks ago my boyfriend had girls over at his house & he lied about it. Well now i just cant trust him & its so hard not to be with him all the time to make sure , he lives in a neighborhood FULL of freaking whores & his friends are the greatest influence on him either. He says he's getting tired of it because i always have some smart stuff to say about it , Im just SOO scared its going to happen again even though he says its not but im scared because of my scaredness & not trusting him that its eventually going to break us up because he says he's already tired of it , idk what to do & tomorrow he's getting his license so it makes things worst on my part . idk what to do , helpppp !

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boyfriend hit me on accident?


Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 5:49 pm

so my boyfriend likes to play these games i guess you could call them where he pulls the strings of my hoodie and sometimes he hits me in the face like never hard just little taps and like yesterday it went to far he hit me really hard and it left a mark.. he knows i dont even like it when he does it softly and i told my best friend because i was crying.. and she was like im gonna go after that stupid a**hole and then some of my other friends found out and said the same thing.. im really afraid if my ex finds out hes gonna like beat him up really badly because my ex is like one of my best friends now and .. if he finds out my boyfriend will like end up in the hospital everyone says i should dump my boyfriend .. the thing is he said he was j...

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please help


Posted Thursday May 22 2008, 4:38 pm

my boyfriend has cheated on me once before and he told me a year later.


he lives far away now and i only get to see him twice a week.

yesterday he was sitting on the bus with this girl and shes like i dont want to talk I'm busy because i wanted to talk to her.

and she was copying off my boyfriends homework.

and also this gay guy keeps saying to people how he wants to have sex with my boyfriend. and my boyfriend doesnt even say no he gets flattered.


should i breakup with him?

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