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My guy friend that i like
My friend chris asked me out by a note last year in like february of 10th grade and now im ending 11th and i never responded and i feel really stupid because i really like him and i did then too i think but i dont know why i never responded and he liked me a lot and i have no clue if he still likes me and we never see each other any more and i want to write a note to him and tell him everything and try to give it to him if i see him but im not too sure if i should. he would always tickle me and make me laugh and the day that he found out that i read the naot he came up to me and we hugged and it was really swett but i just dont know what to do! does anyone have any advice that i could do? because i really like him and would really like another chance to be his girlfriend and he is the sweetest guy that i have ever met!!! thanks for taking the time to read and answer this!
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This guy sounds like a total sweetie, and it sounds like you really care about it. I'd take the dive, and tell him. Explain why you didn't get back to him for song long, for whatever reason you had. Then ask if maybe you can start over. If he liked you enough to tell you, then give that back to him. If you can't find a way to get it to him.. try email, or a mutual friend who might see him more.
If you write in my inbox with more detail, I can probably help you further.
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Remember last year when he worked up the courage to pass you that note? Well return the favor. Give him a note of his own, and hold nothing back. If you don't you might miss out on the best thing you ever had.
Never be afraid of failure. Love's about taking chances, making sacrifices, and being fearless.
Even if things don't work, he'll appreciate knowing that his affection for wasn't wasted.
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Just tell him how you feel. I think you should verbally tell him out of respect for the fact that you didn't respond to his note he wrote to you so long ago. It also shows a sign of maturity. We passed notes in 5th grade, remember those? (Do you like me, check yes or no) LOL.. Do be prepared to answer why you never responded to him.
I am also in hopes that he's not the type of person who may think like this: who does she think she is? She never responded and now here she comes MONTHS later, as if I should respond to her because the world doesn't revolve around her on her time!".. but, if he's nice, he is still as welcoming and interestd as he was when he first approached you.
Maybe invite him somewhere and tell him you need to talk to him about something very important to you. I am sure the reason you took so long to respond is because you needed time to think about being in a relationship and to determine what it is that you want out of it. "smile"
Good luck
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Well, let's see, how is this note going to sound. "I liked you then and I don't know why I didn't answer you." It will sound as silly as you sound on here, no offense. Don't you think that you should figure out why you didn't answer back then, or at least try to answer that question in your note.
Letting him know that you are human and you are confused and trying to learn about life and are perhaps trying not to rush things straight away, this sets the playing field. It lets him know that you want to take your time and do things right. It gives him an idea of the pace he needs to respect to the long path of getting to know you.
Everything that happens in our lives is a potential learning experience, but if your not thinking about them and figuring out what that lesson is, you don't learn anything and the same stuff will happen over and over until you do.
Life is the biggest lesson you have to learn, school is just knowledge in books, life is hard and even harder to figure out what is the lessons of it are and it never stops until we die. Stop looking at it as if it's something that we just go through meaninglessly.
Good luck
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my advice, surely tell him you like him still. write him a note. you don't want to look back on what could have been later on in your life. ask him to give you another chance! good luck dear. (:
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