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please help
my boyfriend has cheated on me once before and he told me a year later.
he lives far away now and i only get to see him twice a week.
yesterday he was sitting on the bus with this girl and shes like i dont want to talk I'm busy because i wanted to talk to her.
and she was copying off my boyfriends homework.
and also this gay guy keeps saying to people how he wants to have sex with my boyfriend. and my boyfriend doesnt even say no he gets flattered.
should i breakup with him?
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Well if he cheated once, he is more likely to cheat on you again. I'm not saying that he is going to but once you cheat that first time it makes it easier to do it the next time and the time after that and you deserve better than that. If you think you can trust him then I wouldn't break-up with him, but if you are having doubts about the trust issues it maybe a good idea to talk to him about taking a break.
Most guys aren't going to say turn down someone when they say they want to have sex with them, they take it as a compliment. It makes them feel good about themselves, but if may make you feel uncomfortable and if it does then you should really let him know. If you can't communicate with him then things are never going to work, especailly considering the fact that it's a long distance relationship.
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For the cheating, yes, that's a good reason to break up with someone. Espeically if they waited a year to tell you.
But for lending homework? No way. That's ridiculous. It's a homework assignment, not a lapdance...
And I actually laughed when I read the last part of your question. My (guy) friends say that to my boyfriend all the time, and they're always just joking around. Like "I'd go gay for you, in a totally heterosexual way!!!" Even factoring in that a gay guy said it, I wouldn't worry about it and just laugh along, accepting that my boyfriend is desireable =P
So whether or not you forgive him for cheating on you is up to you. I'm way too forgiving of a person; if he cheated early in your relationship, he may have assumed that you weren't exclusive yet. Or something, like I said I'm forgiving... but if it's a regular thing and it doesn't bug him, or if he did it again recently, I'd dump his sorry ass.
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Always break up with a cheater, imo. You respect more than that. The gay guy... well, he has nothing to do with anything. Although my boyfriend would be grossed out if another guy said he'd like to have sex with him, it doesn't mean your boyfriend's unfaithful or gay. (Even though there's nothing wrong with the gay part).
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