okay, so me and my ex (I am 14/ f and he is 13/m) broke up about 2 months ago.
About two weeks ago, i called him to just see how he was, and we ended up talking.
recently, he keeps telling me tht he misses me soooo much and he misses talking to me everyday
and he misses hugging me because my hugs are different then everyone elses and that nothing makes him feel better.
On the phone, we were remincing about old times like when we were laying on his trampoline and looking at the stars or when i fell asleep on him at my house and "how cute i looked"
and he kept saying "wow that was so much funn"
and it was him bringing up these times too not just me.
I also kept asking him what he was thinking about different times and he said
a. how many good times we've had
b. how theres nobody else like me and that im special
c. how cute im being
d. everything
e. me
Then, at 11:11 he asked me if i made a wish and i said "no, did you?" and he said yeah
and i asked him what it was but he wouldnt tell me at all
and this is the worst
there was a point in the convo where i said " i miss you"
and hes like " what? you love me?"
and i didnt say that, but i was like al tired i dont even know why i didnt correct him but i didnt and hes like
"i love you too....i love you too"
like he was repeating it.
and he called me babe more then once. i know it.
it might have been because we were both tired.
but i dont know.
it was about 12 30 when i was like "okay 5 more mins" because he had school the next day and he sounded tired.
and he was like "10 more minuties."
and then when 10 mins was up hes like "nooo. ! unlimited amount of timee"
and then he was like "im gonna talk to you foreverrrr"
and i dont really even know.
and he said he was going to go to a party today but then later in the convo he was like " if your not busy...can i call you tommorow?" then later
"im not going to the party anymore"
He said he still thinks about me alll the time
and then he said he still wants me in his life
and i was like "what do you mean?"
and hes like "i dont knoww"
Then the conversation finally ended when his mom woke up and he had to get off the phone.
The problem is, he has a girlfriend still. He doesnt really talk to his girlfriend on the phone, mostly me.
I dont know what his deal is, and i really just need somebody to tell me what his deal is and what they think about this whole situation.
help, please.?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kc answered Friday May 23 2008, 5:39 pm: I think you wanted this to happen. If you did not want this to happen you would not have called him randomly when he has a girlfriend, I might add, and talk to him this much. As much as you think you may like him, you should probably let him go. If this kid is telling you he "loves" you and is gah gahing all over you while he is with someone else, who knows what he has done or will do behind your back. He is not a keeper, I'm sorry.
For future advice, never date younger. Dating a guy that is a year younger than you is equivalent to dating a 10 year old. [ kc's advice column | Ask kc A Question ]
ivelisse12 answered Friday May 23 2008, 5:21 pm: To tell oyu the truth he likes you but mabey there is something connecting you together.Or its just a bootty call but i think it realy isn't you should be like whats up with us two. [ ivelisse12's advice column | Ask ivelisse12 A Question ]
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