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different this time..


Posted Wednesday June 11 2008, 4:36 am

hi i'm 14/f

well i just started going out with this guy lets call him frank.. well i've like frank for a while and he finally asked me out today and i said yes. Well at the begining of the year i had another boyfriend and we weren't very close we went out for 2 months and we didn't even hold hands or hug and i was just wondering wat i could do to make this realtionship better?
I've never really been close with my boyfriends the sorta avoiding them thing..you know?
and so yea i've never done of that stuff never been kissed!

can you help?
thanks


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confused, totally. f/13.


Posted Wednesday June 11 2008, 2:51 am

well. f/13. and i'm totally confused.
i like three people,
well, i'm pretty sure i do.
like.
one of them, i know i like, actually i love them.
but said person, lets call them E.
well. E is dating someone.
and that someone knows i like E
and that person is cool with it.

well.
onto the next person.
i kinda like that person
but.
i don't knwo
i don't wanna tell that person
because then when we hang out,
it would be wierd
and i don't want that
but i'm pretty sure i like them.


and then there's the loser.
i've liked him for a longgg time
we've gone out a couple of times.<...

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summer romance...but not w/ my bf


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 11:18 pm

okay so im 17 and im a girl. ive been dating this one guy whos 17 as well (Kyle) and he wont even act like we are dating. i have to do everything and sometimes he doesnt act as if i even exist and ive tried talking to him and he just doesnt understand me. all my friends and his friends think i should break up with him for obvious reasons-basically its not even like we are going out? but i really liked him and thought it was gonna work and have been trying very hard to make it work for us. but see now i met this new guy (Tyler) who is also 17 and whenever we hang out we act so flirty and i dont know if it would ever work for me and him but i dont think its right to keep dating kyle while im developing a crush on tyler...and i know for a fact...

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frequent chapstick use


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 10:43 pm


I am 19 an a guy. Ok so about a month ago i went out with two friends of mine, with one being a girl i really like.We sat in the her car waiting for our other friend to come out.As we waited, we had small talk an jokes going, but she kept putting chapstick on her lips like 4 times the entire time while we talked.I didn't say anything about it.I just thought, man is she trying to tell me something or does she really likes putting chapstick on her lips? Do you think she is interested in me?

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How to give a blowjob!!


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 8:38 pm

Please only people who know what they're talking about. i would just like to know what to do and what to not do when giving a guy head please dont judge im curious

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Guy I like


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 8:34 pm

Hey, A guy I like wrote on my facebook wall and said that I "have an awesome movie taste", does anyone know of something clever and kind of flirty that I could write back to him? But not too much because I work with him. Thank You :)

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heartbroken and i hate/love all guys


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 7:57 pm

iv never had an actual "bf" but many very close guy friends. but recently my best friend, the guy who i trusted my life with made my life a living hell and screwed up every possible thing, bc we liked eachother. hes afraid of me cause i get"to close" to guys. i just hug everyone and i like it when guys hold me, i just feel that no guy loves me at all. he ruined me and i can not trust anyone even if its a girl, i had all my trust in him. we hate eachother and fight so much somedays but others we like eachother we just forgive eachother way to easy. i need to get over him and iv been tryin for the past year but i just cant, its hard to explain, weve been best friends then he has the most retarded reason and then ruins me o...

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A boy likes me?!?!


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 7:00 pm

lmao. okay so me and this guy have gotten really close in the past skool year. im 13/f by the way. anyway, my friend and i like sorta joined his little group of friends.

well today my friend wasn\'t in school and so in the afternoon we were all just sitting around so me, him ( his name is gunna be \'josh\'), and our friend, x (lol) decied to play \'would u rather\" we started off with gross ones like would you rather eat your bff\'s face or make out with a horse. haha.

anyway we got to really personal ones. i asked them who they would rather \'do\' (ya know.. have sex with...) , me or my friend. they both said me. they asked me the same question and i said josh.

next our other friend anth...

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Never had a bf, going to college, how to meet guys?


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 6:42 pm

I sort of have a few questions in one here.

So i'm 17 years old, female, and i'm graduating high school next week. (i'm a young senior) Firstly, a ton of my friends drink, and i don't, so i haven't been hanging out with them lately, which is sad. Now my little brother (going to be a junior in hs next year) wants to start drinking. What do i do? I feel like i'm losing my friends and my brother because i'm not comfortable partying with them.

Also, This boy i liked forever is back from college for the summer and i want something to happen but i'm afaid of ruining a friendship. He told me recently he liked me back when i liked him two years ago... and now he's single again. We go for walks, watch movies together, ...

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pining


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 5:52 pm

This guy was chasing me for a few months, but I had a boyfriend. After my boyfriend dumped me, I went on a date with this guy and had a great time, and told him I wanted to see him again, but both our schedules were crazy so we didn't end up going out again (he moved to Oregon). He's since moved back but I don't have his number anymore and now I'm pining for him. Think about him all the time and stuff but the only was I can think of to get in touch with him is through an ex of his. And I'm moving in two weeks. Is it worth it to try?

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Birthday Gifts for my Boyfriend


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 3:15 pm

hi ok i have been going out with my boyfriend for a while and his birthday is comming up. he'll be 16 i've bought him a couple things already and i like all of the things ive chosen, but one is 2 pairs of cute boxers from american eagle.

i just wanna know if thats weird? ha
anyone answer please! esspecially guys though..
tell me if your girlfriend bought u boxers would you think thats weird?
help me ! thankss :)

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should I ignore his smoking habbit?


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 2:46 pm

Theres this guy who has told me he really likes me, we flirt alot but he doesnt know the feelings I have for him! I really really really like him but he smokes and thats whats putting me off going into a relationship with him! He knows how i feel about smoking and he told me he had stopped just for me! But then one of my friends told me he had tried to stop but couldnt and he was still telling me he had stopped! Do I just ignore his smoking habbit and focus on the feelings I have for him?

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help


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 1:01 pm

ok this boy i liked has a girlfriend but he likes me. he wants me to go to this powehouse with him on friday should i go... i really like him.. he calls me, he Ims me and texts me on my cell.... i think he likes me do you . he is 16 and im 18

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How do you forgive someone when they cheated on you?


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 11:49 am

My Bf cheated on me when I was 7 months pregnant. He actually slept with the giel who later claimed she was pregnant from him. He later on told after I had our baby at 7 months pregnant. Now i don't know what to do. I want to wrk things out and put this behind me but I can't. We have two kids toghther and we've been with each other for 3yrs. Its so hard to let go of him when we have kids together.I really feel confused and hurt. I don't know if he'll do it again. i want to leave but I"m stuck....

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Time considered when accepting or declining wedding proposal


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 10:17 am

I have been involved for over 17 years with my highschool sweetheart. We have 3 children together. We were married in 2001. I divorced him in 2005, because we both weren't ready for marriage. Spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally or Financially. We didn't communicate and couldn't get alone with each other so we divorced, and gave it some space, while continuing to see one another, regardless of dating other people. Upon continuing to see each other, we grew closer together. I still have some trust issues, as he does as well, yet we talk about them. Sometimes we don't communicate with eachother and become distant only for a week or so and let it cool off and then discuss the issues and move forward. I love him very very much. Abuse used to be ...

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Why can't I take NO for a answer?


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 2:45 am


I have feelings for my best friend for 7 years and still counting. I told her that I am bi sexual and she is fine with it. I talk to her about my struggle for coming out and she listens and gives me advice but I really struggle of trying to get over her! She is bi curious never had a long term boyfriend but confused of her sexuality and not interested to anyone at the moment. I told her I like her but she sees me as a sister. I am never touchy feeling or flirty to her I keep my distance. But she is to me! She leans on me sometimes and flirty to me too. I asked her if she likes me more than a friend she said not as of now sorry I see you as a sister. I want to get over her but every time I try I have a feeling that she does like me m...

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is she out to get me?


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 2:31 am

There is this girl, sammy, last summer she got with this guy i really really liked. i didnt know her at first, but after she realized that me and her boyfriend had a really long and meaningful history she got extremely jealous. She would often wait until i was walking by and kiss her boyfriend, the one i liked, or tell him how much she loved him and how glad she was that they were together, just so i could hear. and i knew this because she would give me a very smug smile after she saw the look of hurt on my face.

..well sammy and her boyfriend broke up and i had finally moved on from him. two weeks ago i was out on a date and she happened to see us. then just two days ago i found out that the guy i had been on the date with i...

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another chance?


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 2:26 am

There is this boy... I have been interested in him for almost two years now. we have been on and off and he has hurt me really badly... twice. the first time me and him got together, i was going through a really rough time with my family and I told him that i wasn't going to be myself until everything worked out. i told him that i still wanted to be with him very much, but that i had to figure stuff out with my family before I really had time to focus on him. He said he understood and that he would wait, but when my fanily problems got worked out.. he had moved on to another girl. i tried really hard to be okay with this because i was the one who made him wait, but seeing them together everyday was killing me. So i told him and he said he s...

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Love Octagon?


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 2:12 am

Okay, my ex and i are really great friends. Actually, we act as if we're more that friends. As if we were a couple. Yes, kisses included and everything. He's pretty much like a best friend, we've gotten closer now that we broke up. I like him a lot, and i KNOW he likes me the same way too. Now you ask, why are we still not together? This guys also happens to like not only me but MY best friend. Which is pretty messed up if you ask me, but then again i know you really can't control who you have feelings for. But anyways, thats the reason why we broke up. And MY best friend actually told me that SHE liked HIM too. But, thing is she has a boyfriend. Isn't this all just really weird and confusing? Yeah well, i need help. What do i dooo?

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Does he and do I ?


Posted Tuesday June 10 2008, 12:00 am

[[ i\'m a 13 year old girl in middle school ]]

okay. so, i like this guy named jack. and a while ago i wrote something in his truth box on myspace that said \'you need to grow your hair out again. it looked much hotter not buzz cut. youre really hott but a jerk. and pretty funny but still mean.\'
because hes really hott, but a jerk to everyone. well the next day at school in first block, he said something to me about a truth box but i couldnt hear him so i was just like \'whatt?\' and he just said ask me in second block. but i forgot about that so i couldnt. then when i was looking at this other guy\'s profile, i saw that jack had commented him and said \'hey i think hailey wrote in my truth box that im hot but mean. w...

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