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Okay, my ex and i are really great friends. Actually, we act as if we're more that friends. As if we were a couple. Yes, kisses included and everything. He's pretty much like a best friend, we've gotten closer now that we broke up. I like him a lot, and i KNOW he likes me the same way too. Now you ask, why are we still not together? This guys also happens to like not only me but MY best friend. Which is pretty messed up if you ask me, but then again i know you really can't control who you have feelings for. But anyways, thats the reason why we broke up. And MY best friend actually told me that SHE liked HIM too. But, thing is she has a boyfriend. Isn't this all just really weird and confusing? Yeah well, i need help. What do i dooo?
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screw giving you sympathy like everyone else has tried to do.
but imma give you the hard truth.
if you like him more than your friend
she should back off.
and she has a boyfriend
she should be happy with that.
if she liked the other guy more.
she would've already hooked up with him.
stay friends with benefits with the guy,
and wait till the flame between him and your friend cools down.
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well this sounds incredibly hard and confusing for you.. you first need to talk to your best friend. tell her that you still have feelings for you ex and that it is not really fair for her to have feelings for him also, considering she has a boyfriend. if she says that she has more feelings for your ex than her own boyfriend then you should both agree not to date him, trust me a guy is not worth the end of your friendship. if she decides that she likes her boyfriend more, ask her is she can maybe step back a bit so you and your ex can work things out without her in the picture. then you need to talk to your ex. tell him that you still have feelings for him, but if his feeling for your friend are going to get in the way of that, then you need to end things- kissing and all. its not fair to you if you are hooking up with him while he has feelings for someone else. you deserve the best, and that means the full attention of the boy your kissing :)
I hope things work out for you!
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