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summer romance...but not w/ my bf
okay so im 17 and im a girl. ive been dating this one guy whos 17 as well (Kyle) and he wont even act like we are dating. i have to do everything and sometimes he doesnt act as if i even exist and ive tried talking to him and he just doesnt understand me. all my friends and his friends think i should break up with him for obvious reasons-basically its not even like we are going out? but i really liked him and thought it was gonna work and have been trying very hard to make it work for us. but see now i met this new guy (Tyler) who is also 17 and whenever we hang out we act so flirty and i dont know if it would ever work for me and him but i dont think its right to keep dating kyle while im developing a crush on tyler...and i know for a fact its not gonna go away...plus im going into my senior year. i need a mature relationship or none at all right? just tyler and me are going to be spending the entire summer together and we have already clicked majorly...what do you think i should do. i feel like a big ass too my my boyfriend because when we are together i really like him but then as soon as he ignores me again i get pissed and cant help but think about tyler...ugh. yea thats basically it. thanks for any advice on the matter :)
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You seem miserable with your boyfriend and if everyone tells you to break up with him then maybe you should because what is the point in being in a relationship with someone who ignores you? You can try to be friends with him afterwards since it seems that is what you are now. It is probably time that you need someone new and you are young. And it seems like Tyler is also interested then you should try to pursue him after you dump Kyle.
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Alright. You're not happy with your boyfriend at ALL. And I can see where you're coming from. If it's hanging by a loose thread and you have another guy on the side..then cut that thread! Why let this notion of uncertainty hang and spoil your entire summer? Let loose, let go of Kyle and spend some time with a person who takes you more seriously. And you're right. A childish relationship might as well be no relationship at all. I'd say break up with Kyle. Things might only get worse.
Good luck, hon :)
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I think you should breakup with your bf obviously he isnt treating you like you want to be treated and if you like this other guy then take a chance and go out with him good luck!!!
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