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is she out to get me?
There is this girl, sammy, last summer she got with this guy i really really liked. i didnt know her at first, but after she realized that me and her boyfriend had a really long and meaningful history she got extremely jealous. She would often wait until i was walking by and kiss her boyfriend, the one i liked, or tell him how much she loved him and how glad she was that they were together, just so i could hear. and i knew this because she would give me a very smug smile after she saw the look of hurt on my face.
..well sammy and her boyfriend broke up and i had finally moved on from him. two weeks ago i was out on a date and she happened to see us. then just two days ago i found out that the guy i had been on the date with is now her boyfriend. I am not really mad at the boy, i mean yea it sucks that he blew me off for her... but hey thats life. but i can't help but thinking that this is a really bad coincidence?
any opinions... is this just a crazy coincidence? or is this girl out to get me and hurt me whatever way possible. i just dont want this guy to get hurt if she is just dating him to get back at me!
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Some people get pleasure in hurting others. And it seems like she is jealous of you.
She could just be totally inocent and just happen to like the guys you do, and she gets them, and somehow doesnt notice that she is hurting you (but i truely doubt that)
I would try talking to her, but some people are hard to talk to...
I dont know how old you are, but if you are in school, you could get your councelor to have a talk with you and her, and try to fix things, and if you arent in school, im sorry i can not think of anything, but talkng to her, or the guys. If you can get to the guys, without her biting your head off first.
I hope i helped, and good luck with her!
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She is sooooo jealous of yoU IT IS amazing! Some people only feel better about themselves when they hurt others, get what others want, and bring unhappiness to others lives. She is a jerk and has a LOT of problems. I am glad that you don't want to cause any trouble and don't want the guys to get hurt. That's good, but you can't really do anything to help them. Simply TRY to be nice to her, and let these boys see for themselves what this girl is REALLY like. What I am going to tell you NOT to do is try to get revenge. Don't fight fire with fire.
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soe girls can be total witches in cases like these.
think about it, the only reason she'd be doing this to you is because she's jealous of you.
clearly!
hey, she might like the guy you were on a date with and it may have been a coincidence.
but for now, have a little bit of an open eye and dont let her get to you.
if she flirts with a guy that you like, ignore her.
if you look hurt, thats exactly what she wants.. you to be hurt.
so dont let her see you hurt.
make her think nothing she does bothers you and eventually, she'll give up.
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There are two options.
1. She's really good at picking up your leftovers
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2. For whatever reason she sees you as competition and is out to get whatever you have in order to try and make herself happy. Apparently she thinks that you are so much happier and have a better life than she does so she is trying to find that for herself. The best thing you can do is ignore her. Make sure that anyone you get involved with is someone you really trust and won't fall for any games she tries to play. Other than that just go on with your life and enjoy living it.
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