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Why can't I take NO for a answer?
I have feelings for my best friend for 7 years and still counting. I told her that I am bi sexual and she is fine with it. I talk to her about my struggle for coming out and she listens and gives me advice but I really struggle of trying to get over her! She is bi curious never had a long term boyfriend but confused of her sexuality and not interested to anyone at the moment. I told her I like her but she sees me as a sister. I am never touchy feeling or flirty to her I keep my distance. But she is to me! She leans on me sometimes and flirty to me too. I asked her if she likes me more than a friend she said not as of now sorry I see you as a sister. I want to get over her but every time I try I have a feeling that she does like me more than a friend but denies it. But I don’t think that’s true. I just can’t take no for an answer. I don’t have any gay friends to take me to gay bars or help me hook up with a girl.
I feel like she the only girl in the world I am in love with but I really want to get over her and see her as a sister.
if you were me what would you do?
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thats a very hard position to be in.
first of all,
sometimes when girls are really close friends, it'll seem as though their acting flirty towards eachother when they might even both be straight.
some things are like that in todays world.
for now, try to think and believe deeply that she only sees you as a sister no matter how she acts towards you. this should help you understand your guys relationship on friendly terms.
second of all, you dont need a GAY friend to bring you to a gay bar.
there are tons of bi curious or any type of straight people who are allowed into bars like that just to hangout with friends.
if none of your friends feel comfortable doing that, join a gay club or an online website to help you come out about being gay or to neet other gay people.
this way it will help you to open up, and help others too.
hope i helped,
lalaloverxo.
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If I were you I would first go up to the mirror and admit the fact that you and her might never be together. Then I would stay as far away as possible from her for a few months. Take a break..but inform her about it! Don't make plans, don't call and don't answer phone calls. If you lie to yourself that you see her as a sister, you'll end up being hurt even more if you ever happen to see her with someone else. Try to stay away and get distracted. I know its hard to meet bisexual females (I, myself, am bisexual as well) but you should at least try. Go out with friends and experience new things. Also, if you can't keep away from her, just minimize the contact. And don't flirt! It'll make things worse.
I really hope things work out for you.
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