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confused, totally. f/13.
well. f/13. and i'm totally confused.
i like three people,
well, i'm pretty sure i do.
like.
one of them, i know i like, actually i love them.
but said person, lets call them E.
well. E is dating someone.
and that someone knows i like E
and that person is cool with it.
well.
onto the next person.
i kinda like that person
but.
i don't knwo
i don't wanna tell that person
because then when we hang out,
it would be wierd
and i don't want that
but i'm pretty sure i like them.
and then there's the loser.
i've liked him for a longgg time
we've gone out a couple of times.
and be through alot together
but i'm starting to hate him.
but there's something about him
that i just can't resist.
ilove him.
and that's just the end of it.
WHAT DO I DO?????
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I would go out with the second guy because even though you will feel awkward, after a couple dates it should go away
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Well obviously don't go for the third guy because if you have gone out a couple of times then it's obvious that you two aren't meant to be and it doesn't even seem like you like him that much since you described him as a loser. As for the second guy the only way to know if he likes you back is to tell him or have someone else find out for you. For number 1 forget it since he is dating someone else. Doesn't he even seem like he likes you back?
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Take your time and be selective. You are 13 and you have plenty of time. Right now you are confused because you are experiencing so many different emotions and other things involved with your age.
The first guy has someone, so count him out. He isn't capable of having a relationship with you while he is seeing someone and if he did dog her with you, he'd also be considered a loser so, don't even mix with that mess- cause, that's what it is, simply mess.
The Second Guy- seems like a cool friend. Lesson: if you are going to like anyone or try having some type of relationship deeper than friendship -it's best to always have that with someone who was a friend first. If you wanna know why, email me at sophia_pettus@yahoo.com and I will tell you why.
The Third person - you called him a loser yourself. So, what is the point in dealing with some loser who you already KNOW is a loser? Only you know why he is a loser, but I will say this - Leopards don't change their spots - if he is a loser now, he will be a loser later. Also, if he is a loser then he knows that there is something about him that you can't resist which gives him the opportunity to take advantage of you and not appreciate you as you should be appreciate because he knows you can't resist as you tell yourself but guess what? you are stronger than that and can resist a loser so that you aren't the one who loses in the end. You feel me?
Good Luck Miss Lady and work that thing out with yourself first to determine what you want, how you want it and from who you want it from. Again, be careful, caution and always be a lady!
good luck
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You have to figure out who you like the most and for what reason obviously you cant get the the guy who is already going out with someone. I think you should go out with the second guy cause it seems like you can actually get him.
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