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He Likes Me, I Want To Be Friends
Posted Saturday June 28 2008, 3:28 am
17/f
So tonight I had a guy over, we`ve only hung out once before. We were watching a movie alone in my room but it was hard to follow so we pretty much ended up having a pillowfight. Innocent, I know.
This is because I don`t want a boyfriend right now, so I didn`t give him opportunity to try something else. If I want to do flirty things like that (plus joking around," accidental" physical contact), is it still possible to keep my intentions clear? I`m hoping I won`t have to directly tell him that I`m not wanting a relationship. I already had the opportunity to say I don`t really date but he seemed confused.
Is it okay to do this, or should I stop flirting? If I am completely upfront I`...
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never ever.
Posted Saturday June 28 2008, 1:44 am
okay so i'm 16 and i have never been on a date or even kissed a guy for that matter. it makes me kinda sad because there are freshman who have already had like 3 boyfriends in one year. and i know i shouldn't compare myself to them but it makes me feel like there more mature when i know that there not.
anyways! is this weird that i haven't done anything and i'm already 16?
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Anniversary
Posted Saturday June 28 2008, 12:28 am
Okay, so my boyfriend and I will be celebrating out two year anniversary in two months. I wanna do something special. Not something ordinary though. I want it to be simple, but romantic. Something like a picnic, but more detailed. I know it's not a lot of information, but any suggestions would be very appreciated.. Thanks =]
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Imature
Posted Saturday June 28 2008, 12:09 am
Yes many are going to find this really imature. But here goes...
Okay so my boyfriend is going to be 18 next year. His dad wants to get his a stripper for his 18th birthday. I absolutely hate it! I mean I've been with him for over two years, why does he need another girl nakes rubbing up on him. I know many guys do this, and I'm probably over exadgerating( i know i spelled that wrong =]) but honestly, I can't get over this. It bothers the hell out of me. Is there anything I can say to him that could change his mind. Or is there anything I can do to stop worrying about such a childish subject? PLEASE help me, cause I get more and more pissed everytime I think about this!
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first date.
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 10:57 pm
i just met this boy. (btw im 16, ive been on first dates before but i always screw them up. and recently i was in a serious long relationship so i CAN be normal around guys, haha, im pretty experienced) but anyway. he hasnt asked me on a date yet, he just asked to hang out. but im pretty sure he likes me. and i like him. so i dont know how to.. "hang out" should i be nice? i dont wanna be weird and too nice and ask too many questions. he's a skater. i don't wanna be too rude though. hes kinda shy around girls at first. and im like way shy at first but i open up eventually. i really dont wanna seem shy though. what are some things i could tell myself? and yeah. help!
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Boy, Feelings, and Me.
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 10:29 pm
i have that problem where i don't express my feelings. not all feelings just upset. i don't show people that i'm upset. so. i have this guy who likes me a lot. we'll call him marvin. well marvin has asked me out a lot and he keeps wondering what my desision is. i keep telling him that i don't know. this other guy asked me out and we'll call him andrew. but i've been friends with him forever so i said no and he understands. but i think i like marvin but i can't make up my mind because i don't want to show my feelings. it's not that i don;t want to it't because i'm so used to hiding my feelings when i'm upset so i don't look like a wimp. so i don't know how i feel about this marvin guy. he;s really nice and funny. but maybe the fact that not...
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how do u get a guy
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 7:57 pm
this is just something that crossed my mind but...
how do you get a guy to take interest in you?
like any advice for flirting tips?
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intimidated
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 6:47 pm
Hi!
okay so my friend and i went to a 21 and under club last weekend and we saw some really cute guys. Just as i had finally gotten up the courage to ask one to dance this blonde perfect girl comes up and asks the one i wanted to ask to dance. they danced together pretty much the whole time i was there although my friend said he didn't look to interested in her. Every time he would walk away from her or she would walk away from him, my friend would beg to ask him to dance, and believe me i wanted to but i just felt intimidated by the other girl. She looked perfect and was kinda slutty so she was grinding insaneish on him and i am soooooo not slutty and thought how could i compare with that.
i guess im asking which girl would ...
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What should I get him for his birthday?
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 5:58 pm
My boyfriend of 5 months is having his birthday soon, and I'm really not sure what to get him. For my birthday, he got me a really pretty diamond heart bracelet, which I love. I don't have a job, but I hope to have one soon, but I really can't think of a nice gift. I was thinking like a scrapbook of things we've done, but I don't have too many pictures or anything, and I'd also like something he can use, that's thoughtful. Any ideas would be really appreciated!
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should i wait
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 5:25 pm
so me and my guy friend are best friends. he liked me in 7th grade and then again earlier this year. i liked him too but we never told each other. he has this on again off again girlfriend who he went out with and broke up with nine times. so him and his girl had been broken up for about 2 months, she had another boyfriend so i finally decided to tell my guy that i liked him once again and i had heard through a mutual friend that he liked me again. so i told him and he informed me that his ex girlfriend had called him the day before to let him know that she was breaking up with her current boyfriend and wanted to give their relationship another shot....(as if the first 9 times didnt make it clear that it doesnt work out). so he said "i...
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First real boyfriend
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 4:12 pm
Okay well as of 6.23.08 I have my first real boyfriend! Yes I am ver exited and all that. But im scared of what my mom will say. How can i tell her? I want her to know so that i can go over his house and go places with him, its kind of hard to do that if she dont know were im going. So what can I do???
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Date? First Time, Movie.
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 2:32 pm
14/f im going on a movie date tonight, our first one acctual and I need tips :) whats cute, whats attractive. What would be an appropiate movie for us to see tonight. We've hung out alot so a kiss wouldnt be out of the question so all tips and advice would be great!!
And if anyone can relate, im kind of the pants in this relationship because sometimes hes more nervous and can be awkward because im his first. He doesnt always know like how to act in this relationship
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He says he likes me, but he has a girlfriend.
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 1:36 pm
So this guy I was going out with during Summer 06 just reconnected with me about a week ago. It was really random, but we just started talking about how we used to be so close two years before, although he has a girlfriend.
And he said, "I think I'm going to break up with her. I really like you. I want to be with you."
But then he decided he wanted to stay with her. I was basically led on, and I don't know how he feels anymore but he has a girlfriend when he told me he liked me still. I don't know what to do or where I stand, I already explained to him how I felt and it wasn't fair, and he just said he was sorry about it but there was nothing he could do. It's tough, bc he won't talk to me the same anymore.
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Movie Date
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 1:12 pm
14/f im going on a movie date tonight, our first one acctual and I need tips :) whats cute, whats attractive. What would be an appropiate movie for us to see tonight. We've hung out alot so a kiss wouldnt be out of the question so all tips and advice would be great!!
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guy on the bus issue
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 10:46 am
ok so i like this guy and today we were on the bus together. (not school bus, i live in england so we were on the red kinda bus :P)
he was sitting downstairs in the back and i was standing at the door and was about to go off. i looked at him and he looked back at me smiling a little (but he always smiles so i dno if that meant smth) then i thought maybe i should look at himn one mor etime before i go off and then this girl came downstairs and he was looking at HER.
so i was a bit dissapointed because i thought he fancys me since he notices me alot in school.
i dno if him looking at at her meant smth so i'm jzst asking, would a guy look at a interesting looking girl even if the girl he really fancies is standing next to...
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New BF!
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 4:00 am
My best friend hooked me and her boyfriend's friend up and we've been going out for a couple of days. Well, today, we had our first kiss. And now it feels like there are butterflies in my stomach and I have this really read feeling in my chest. Like electricity flowing through me. What does it mean? I mean, I don't think it is possible to love someone if you just started to date them, right? So what is that weird feeling?
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FIRST KISS! WHEN DO I KNOW THE MOOD IS RIGHT?
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 3:13 am
ok im 15 im a male and I love my girlfriend with all my heart and weve both bin talkin about how much we love each other and we both are dying 2 have our first kiss. how do i know wen the mood is rite and will she give me hints? if she does hint 2 me wat will they be?
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Did I say something wrong? Ugh, I don't get guys
Posted Friday June 27 2008, 12:58 am
Well i've liked this guy forever, And I am pretty sure he liked me too. We always flirted like non stop. But now summer is coming and I can tell we are trying to keep in contact with eachother (it's hard considering he doesn't have a phone) Anyway We talked online EVERYDAY Since schools let out. Then one night, I imed him and I was like "Omg joshh!" And he was like "yo" And then I was like "Omg, I just watched the scariest movie and I'm home alone and freaking out" And he was like "cool" And i was like "not really" And then he just signed off. It was so odd, he's never like that and he always says bye to me and i figured he would be there for me or something. So I just thought to myself, 'ok...
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Heart Broken
Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 11:03 pm
Well my boyfriend of a year & 3 months broke up with me on june 1st. It's been so hard because he's my first love & im f/15 . We have been through so much together , He just turned 16 in april. Well ever sence march our relationship kind of went down hill slowly but surley. He started going behind my back , hanging out with girls & not telling me or them coming over to his house , i would always get a call whenever it happend because he lives in a big neighborhood so things got around real fast! He said it was so stressful but i mean HE brought it on himself , he was the one doing wrong i did everything for him , i love him with all my heart & i was his first love too. It's like he's a COMPLETE differnt person than when we ...
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likes best friendss
Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 10:45 pm
okay so i started dating this guyy last saturday so we only dated for 6 days. it really wasnt serious or anything but todayy we were texting and i got a text from him and goes "me neither but i think i wanna break up with 1 for 2 because i really like her"(1 is me, 2 is my friend) and i didnt think he meant to send it to me. i was like k and he didnt reaslize he said it so i go u like 2 he goes as a friend i go what about that last text he goes shit its confusig im like youu like her i get it. and he kept saying he likes both of us and blah blah blahhhh well its weird bc she .. WAS one of my best friends and i dunno. i broke up with him. 2 found out and got soooo amd at me and now wont talk to me. wsas it wrong for me to break up with him and should she be mad at me?
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