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Boy, Feelings, and Me.
i have that problem where i don't express my feelings. not all feelings just upset. i don't show people that i'm upset. so. i have this guy who likes me a lot. we'll call him marvin. well marvin has asked me out a lot and he keeps wondering what my desision is. i keep telling him that i don't know. this other guy asked me out and we'll call him andrew. but i've been friends with him forever so i said no and he understands. but i think i like marvin but i can't make up my mind because i don't want to show my feelings. it's not that i don;t want to it't because i'm so used to hiding my feelings when i'm upset so i don't look like a wimp. so i don't know how i feel about this marvin guy. he;s really nice and funny. but maybe the fact that not a lot of people like him is part of it. some of my friends have dated him and they say he just bases relationships on public display of affection and when we break up he will make fun of me. he has done that to all of my friends but he swore that he liked me soo much and that he wouldn't do that if we broke up. i think i like him, i have one of my good friends giving me advice. he tells me a lot that helps. i know who i like but i don;t know if, why, and what for. i am really confused and i know whoever is reading this is probably really pissed of at this because it's so confusing and stuff. but i apologize. to help you help me i'll give you the main points.
1) I don't know if i should say yes to marvin
2) I don't know what i should do about this.
3) I don't know what, how, or how to express what i feel.
4) I'm desparate. any advice will help.
5) Thank you to whoever takes the time to answer.
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I have a hard time expressing when im upset and stuff too. I act like nothings wrong. I thikn you should say yes to marvin, i think that you should tell him when something is wrong and i think that you should just say forget what other people think and do what you feel is right. I think that you should just talk to him about it maybe tell him over dinner or something sweet and if it turns out you dont want to be with him then maybe you should just tell him that and stop avoiding it. I hope this helped
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well, i think that if some of your friends have dated (marvin), you have to listen to them. if they're your true friends they will tell you whats up and straight up... no tricks and no bull. so if they say ' oh marvin is just so blah and he just plays with girls ' you have to take this comment into consideration. dont just blow it off because if you do, you could be making the big mistake of dating him. who cares if he said he liked you a lot. that could be a trick. a trick that almost every single guy in the face of the earth uses to get you to be with them. i know that i must sound like one of those people who hates guys but thats not true. stay away from marvin. he will hurt you if you go out with him. stay close to (andrew) you never know when your feelings might turn to andrew. and since you said that you've been friends with andrew for a long time, then you know that he wont play with you. there are a lot of players in the world, just make sure that theres one guy who wont play you.
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It seems to me that "Marvin" isnt a very good pick at all. According to "all" your friends, hes been a bad choice from the beginning. Just because a guy says and swears he loves you doesnt always mean he does. I personally think you should say no.
What you should do is gather up as much information on him as possible, from your friends or other people. Know what other people know, because the greater opinion can be the more trusted one. After you think you have enough on him, think about it again, knowing what you've learned.
Its okay to be confused at something like this. All you have to do is try to take all the emotion and push it off somewhere for even a little bit, so you have some time to think things through...
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