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okay so i started dating this guyy last saturday so we only dated for 6 days. it really wasnt serious or anything but todayy we were texting and i got a text from him and goes "me neither but i think i wanna break up with 1 for 2 because i really like her"(1 is me, 2 is my friend) and i didnt think he meant to send it to me. i was like k and he didnt reaslize he said it so i go u like 2 he goes as a friend i go what about that last text he goes shit its confusig im like youu like her i get it. and he kept saying he likes both of us and blah blah blahhhh well its weird bc she .. WAS one of my best friends and i dunno. i broke up with him. 2 found out and got soooo amd at me and now wont talk to me. wsas it wrong for me to break up with him and should she be mad at me?
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GOOD JOB, and yes you should have broken up with him! He was trying to be sneaky and you don't deserve someone who is trying to play you as if you're stupid because you aren't!
Who does he think he is? Girl, I am glad you called him out on it because he was going to try to break up with you or try to play you. I don't know 2 is mad. She should be at him, not you! I noticed you said WAS, which is past tense, so are you two not cool anymore? She shouldn't be mad at you!
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u werent necesarilly rong 2 break uo wiht him. if he likes someone else then i think he needs time 2 figure out who he wants 2 be with. as for ur friend i think she shouldnt b mad. there was no reason 4 her 2 b mad.
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First of all I want to say I'm sorry that you've had to go through this.
Second of all, no, you are not wrong for doing that.
Your friend is rude for being mad at you.
He obviously was thinking about breaking up with you anyway, he sent you the text message by accident so instead of you being hurt even more, you did what was right for yourself.
I don't understand at all what your friend has to be mad about. This guy was out to hurt you and you did what you needed to do to save yourself a lot of heartache.
What did your friend want? For you to stay with that loser? Even though he wasn't even that into you and was thinking about going out with her?
I'm not telling you to not be friends with her and I'm sorry for being to blunt about it, but that's crazy.
He's a jerk, and you deserve a lot more than that and can do better. You don't need to date someone like that at all.
And your friend. Well, it's up to you on whom you allow in your life, but even if you stay best friends with her. Just ignore her being mad at you for now because from the information you've given me she has no right to be mad at you.
She should be by your side telling you how much of a fool that guy is. =)
Anyway I'm really not trying to give you a hard time or bash your friend but I just think you should know (and to answer your question) that, no you did nothing wrong, and no, she should not be mad at you for doing what you needed to do.
Hang in there and I hope this helps a little.
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