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Heart Broken
Well my boyfriend of a year & 3 months broke up with me on june 1st. It's been so hard because he's my first love & im f/15 . We have been through so much together , He just turned 16 in april. Well ever sence march our relationship kind of went down hill slowly but surley. He started going behind my back , hanging out with girls & not telling me or them coming over to his house , i would always get a call whenever it happend because he lives in a big neighborhood so things got around real fast! He said it was so stressful but i mean HE brought it on himself , he was the one doing wrong i did everything for him , i love him with all my heart & i was his first love too. It's like he's a COMPLETE differnt person than when we first started dating , it didnt change till like 4 or 5 months ago ? He actslike he doesnt care or anything , & he broke up with me the wee k he got his lisence [ idk if that makes any sence ]. but its been TOUGH on me , i cry all the time & im just starting to eat right again & get my weight up . Idk what to do , everytime we start to talk agan & try to be friends , somthing always comes up & i get hurt again. Help please
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I'm so sorry you got your heart broken. I would love to tell you that it will never happen again, but this would be a lie. It sounds like your doing a little better then when you started, eating again. The best thing I can tell you is to sort out your feelings, maybe write them down, maybe even write a song. It'll be very cathartic, emotionally purging, and that will help seal some of the wounds. Also, time heals all wounds, I know you just want the hurt to be over. Its gonna take some time. Trust me, I've been hurt a time or two, and I can tell you, it does get easier with time, and maybe a little chocolate ice cream. Your story reminds me a little bit of Chris Daughtry's song "over you" at least the chorus, anyway. You may wanna listen to it, it may help. I would honestly tell you, that what you had with him is so intense, you cannot go back to being just friends, at least now anyways. Give it time...
Anyways, I really hope everything works out.
If you need anything, just let me know
~Jeannie
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ok if hes going behind your bak you dont need him. he will do it again. you can find a guy who wont cheat on or go behind ur bak. i lost my first love 2. it was really hard but i learned from it that i have great friends and they helped me through it. everything happens 4 a reason. im sure uve heard that alot but its true. it will hurt for a while but time heals all things. hang in there and the best of luck with everything.
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