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He Likes Me, I Want To Be Friends
17/f
So tonight I had a guy over, we`ve only hung out once before. We were watching a movie alone in my room but it was hard to follow so we pretty much ended up having a pillowfight. Innocent, I know.
This is because I don`t want a boyfriend right now, so I didn`t give him opportunity to try something else. If I want to do flirty things like that (plus joking around," accidental" physical contact), is it still possible to keep my intentions clear? I`m hoping I won`t have to directly tell him that I`m not wanting a relationship. I already had the opportunity to say I don`t really date but he seemed confused.
Is it okay to do this, or should I stop flirting? If I am completely upfront I`d still like to have some innocent fun while getting to know him. Just as I was writing this he texted me. He only left my house 30 minutes ago. He definitely likes me.
Thanks so much for letting me know my options or possibly how you would handle this situation!
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Hey. I think maybe you should stop being flirty with him. I understand that you think of him as a friend but he might be getting the wrong signals and might think that you like him. So it is better if you don't flirt. Also you aren't sure he likes you, maybe he is also acting like a friend as you are. So, before you know his intentions clearly, you should try to cut back on flirting.
Hope i helped.
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Nothings wrong with having fun a flirting
but I wouldn't lead him on to much
because he could get his heart broken.
Give him hints that
you like being single but still wanna flirt.
Try saying something like " i love being single you can flirt with people". Well something like that.
Hope I Helped
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